Polls: Dating

What can be the reason guys would mute a someone's Instagram story and posts? And how can I know if I've been muted on Instagram? Is there any specific ways to determine it? Cause I think my crush muted me on Instagram...

And why

Would you date outside of your race and culture? Would you date say a middle eastern, south or east Asian, indian, African American, mexican etc? Why or why not? Do you think that your family would be okay with it or not?

Also, are there SPECIFIC races you'd be open to dating and some that you absolutely would not even consider? State them.

I removed this guy from SC after speaking to him for a few days. He gave me the vibe that he only wanted something casual then hit me up on IG to ask why I deleted him. It seems as if he’s giving me another shot but I don't know. I feel so bad about myself that if this doesn’t work out (which it probably won’t), I will feel worse about myself. If someone won’t rush into a relationship, then they’re going to be talking to other people and will weigh their options.

I truly think it’s disgusting. I don’t know how some can actually do this. Imagine you scraping the plaque off the person’s teeth with your tongue. So grossss!

A guy on here said, "career women are boring and unattractive. Party girls are fun , hot and down to earth."

This is asked in a dating context, so please choose your answer with that in mind. If your answer is different in a purely sexual context, you can mention it in your comment, but don't vote according to that.

For the purpose of this question, there is no "Neither is important" or "Both are equally important" options. If you can't decide which you find more important, just don't vote.

No girls you can not just date him a little take his money and leave. I’m talking about actually staying this time lol

Do you find tattoos a turn on or turn off for you?

I’m sorry but these are facts!

Just out of curiosity, but I noticed that women these days seem to have no standards, and the few of us who do are written off as gold diggers or snobs in an effort to make us lower our standards.

Like for instance, if a woman wanted to wait say 6 months to a year to have sex, most men are not going to put in the effort to be with that women because other women are much more willing to open their legs. Why wait 6 months for one when you can have multiple within the span of a few days?

Or if a woman wants a man to make a certain amount of money, she's a gold digger. I know for me, I would want a man to make at least what I make because I do not want to be taking care of a grown ass man. However, I've been called a gold digger because of this (which is dumb. I'm a teacher and make less than $45,000 a year). Yet I know many women who are married, but their husbands make half of what they make, and the men like it because the responsibility of providing isn't really on their shoulders.

I had a friend who struggles in the area of looks, too. She's about average build and pretty, but men seem to only want thin white women. However, these guys are often overweight themselves and do not necessarily take care of themselves. But women are so desperate to want a man that they'll accept it. However, she and I both know that if she wanted a body builder guy then she'd be considered ridiculous.

Or the latest argument is women should pay for themselves on a date instead of the man paying. Not saying men should always pay, but for some reason women do not require guys to pay on the first date anymore. Women who do are seen as shallow.


These things weren't really even issue up until maybe 15 years ago.


So do you think that if women as a whole brought back standards that men would put more effort into dating?