Do men consider career women boring compared to the party girl?

Question

A guy on here said, "career women are boring and unattractive. Party girls are fun , hot and down to earth."

ThisIsMyOpinion · Accepted Answer

Wait the party girls are the ones down to earth? Riiiiiiight...
I have nothing agaist either one. I would date any of them, But I have to go with the career woman. Here are my reasons for this:
1. They actually make more than what they spent, so she can actually help with expenses
2. She is more responsable, smart and cult
3. When it's time to party the carrer woman can party too.
4. They can be fit and gorgeous. Not going every night out drinking actually helps with that.
When we are teens or in university, both the party boys and girls look better, more fun. After that they lose their appeal since everyone is making long term plans. Don't get me wrong party girls are good, make great friends and have their advantages. I could totally date one, just not in the long run.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

Career is sexy, stable, can afford adventures, responsible, has things to talk about. These girls are fun as they bottle up all that estrogen and let their hair down so to speak. More interesting to talk to. Some are boring, that's because they take on too much and have no interests.

Party is care free, drunk, slutty, sleep around, expensive taste on poor budget or spoiled rich, unreliable, over accentuate sex over class, not interesting, air head smarts..."Who signed the Declaration of Independence... like was it Clinton?". Good for cheap thrills. Generalities of course, I know of girls in the middle ground of all that who just like to let loose and have fun... but no thanks in general.

Apparently the boy knows what he wants... no responsibility and cheap drugs.

Kas19 · Accepted Answer

Guys like party women when it suits them and career women when they want to settle down.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

If I was a man, I'd go for the women who work for the future not for the weekend...

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

It depends on their age range: most younger guys, around 18 to their mid 20s, want a party girl!
Of course they want someone that's wild and fun with little to no responsibility.

But as most men get older, mature, and ready to settle down, do you think they want a woman that's out all night partying, drinking, and dancing? Lol, no.
They still want that "fun" side of her, but mostly they want a stable, mature career woman that puts responsibility and her job first and will be a good partner.

coachTanthony · Answer

That is like saying women don't like BAD BOYS they prefer the super nice guy. Women can be both, the photos are a bit deceiving.

PrincessGrail · Answer

Some girls are both: career woman by day, party girl by night. I used to be both until fairly recently. Then I kinda settled down to focus on my boyfriend and my career.

englisc · Answer

Of the two, if they were my only choices, I'd choose the girl with a career over a party girl. The guy who said that was probably young, only looking for hook-ups, and probably stupid.

A party girl's biggest hobby is getting drunk every weekend. That to me is boring. They tend to be quite slutty because duh, drinking lowers your inhibitions, and they do that every weekend. There's no way I'd get into a serious relationship with a party girl, that's just asking to get cheated on when you're not there. And they tend to be airheads with nothing else going for them but their looks.

The career girl at least has other stuff going for her other than her looks, will be more intelligent than the party girl, has goals in her life. If she was too focused on her career though, as in not interested in children or taking care of the children while they're young instead wanting to put them straight into daycare and return back to work, again I wouldn't be interested.

So I want neither extreme. Going out every now and again? That's ok. Working but not being so focused on it that it becomes priority over everything else? That's ok.

rjroy3 · Answer

I wouldn't say it's that career women are boring, but it's much more common for a career woman to be overly serious, in her head and because of that she's boring to be around. Because she can't relax. While it's much more common for a party girl to actively help you relax and have fun. Because that's what they do. I think of girls I knew in college who were much more free spirited, enjoying the party life and how fun they were to be around. We'd have fun, intelligent conversations as well, so they were by no means dumb or airheaded. But definitely lacking that overall serious vibe. A good number of them are several years into their careers now or mothers. And as you would expect, they're much more serious than they used to be and naturally drifts to topics that are commonly on their mind... boring topics lol. Their idea of fun has changed quite a bit as well.

If you're investing 80% of your time to thinking about your job, getting ahead in life, the future from a material standpoint, getting a home, new car, bills. That's just going to be dominating your mind. So unless you actively balance that out, it will more or less make you a bit boring to be around. I know when I was in work mode for months, not going out at all. When I first started going out again it took me awhile to loosen up and just be chill/fun again.

lizziepooh03 · Answer

I have never heard a guy that would be worth dating ever say that they would prefer a party girl to not a party girl. Whether she needs to be a "career woman" or not may be debatable. lol!

I have never heard a man prefer the party girl unless he was a party guy.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

He's not entirely wrong, though, I'll note the reasons career women tend to be dull has more to do with their lack of ever having time and then often being to tired to do anything aside from veg at the tv when they have a free moment. Party gals age faster and often put this form of life first. Career women put their careers first. Neither is a win if seeking something more beyond a casual liaison of which both paths often never lead to anything more. Add them having kids to the mix and the precious commodity, "Time", is even further lessened. Neither example is all that exciting.

Both somewhere in their mid 30's with this realization that their partying or careers have left them to be the remaining single amongst their friend who by now are married with children with no more time for them so the career and party girl evenly become unlikely friends and feed off one another especially their perspective of the opposite sex comes into play. They are easy to spot...

fashionguy17 · Answer

I'm 28 years old. Trust me... I've been to many clubs in my early 20s and I used to want to fuck the party girl because I thought they were sooooo sexy. However, back then, I was just looking for women to fuck, not to settle down with.

Party women are party women... that's all they do. They party every weekend with their girls, are very picky about men, and very shallow and they aren't that interesting. Also... a lot of the party women I have met are dumb as rocks (I'm not joking) or have kids already with some deadbeat loser.

At my age, I prefer a career women. I prefer a woman with a college education or their own business. I prefer them NOT to be at clubs at every weekend and to be well read and intelligent. My current girlfriend is a career woman and she is the most interesting woman I have met. Not only that... she is freakier than a party girl when it comes to sex. Lol. Nuff said.

But seriously... career women are more attractive to me.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol I am a career oriented woman and I do not care if others find it boring. I'll be making money, working my dream job and living my life how I want. It is easy being a party girl, but it isn't easy to have a good career and work hard to get what you want in life.

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Guys always want that party girl until she's his girlfriend then they want her to stop parting and stop dressing so provocatively. That's when I start laughing at there ass cause that's what she was when you met her dummy did you really think she'd change lol

Bismarck_96 · Answer

You’ll get nowhere with a party girl if you date a party girl the relationship won’t last forever if you work and the girl is at home doing nothing but making plans on a party and by the time you get home she gone want money to buy a party ticket or $2000 just to put in for a party wich means you’ll never have money for yourself you could go bankrupt or even lose you home it doesn’t matter how rich you are but all the partying is gone put you in the streets

A girl with her career is much better she’s independent she parties less/rarely she gets things done by herself you wouldn’t have to worry about losing nothing you could even pay off your house quicker by both of you investing

intjgamer · Answer

A party girl is clearly not ready to settle down. My own brothers are dealing with the depression of having broken up with party girls.

Short story time. Younger brother has girlfriend from high school all through college. The party years. After college the girlfriend continues to party , gets drunk one night and sleeps with a stranger. Claims she's raped without reporting it to police. The next night after that "rape" she is seen in bed with another guy. Mind blown. Huge betrayal. Wouldn't want it for anyone.

Jjpayne · Answer

Let's put it this way, it's good to know how to unwind. Party girls are one thing but can a girl shed her office skin and do something fun or attactive? It's good to find a way to be fun and loosen up, in some way

mugone · Answer

Career women can be egotistical and kind of control freaks, but that doesn't mean party girls are perfect, party girls will say they love you while sucking some other guy's dick not an hour later. Good thing about career women is that they take things seriously, and the good thing about party girls is that spending time with these girls really helps with stress

I think women need a man that is more of a lover, and another man that is more of a friend. The same goes for men, they need a woman that is more of a friend, and another woman that is more of a lover

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

I don't want either. A career woman is going to fixate on her career not her family (or she will abandon the career for family in which case why bother at all?), a party girl is, well untrustworthy and in my opinion not really some one I would like to be around.

dantetheexplorer · Answer

Not at all. To me, the party girl would be the boring girl.
I like women with drive, goals, and ambition, women who know what they want in life and have a strong determination and drive to achieve it.

Aimless, goal-less, hedonistic women are not my cup of tea.

Dionigi · Answer

There's something misleading about this question.
Party girls are represented in their extreme form. Those seem unreliable and unfaithful.
While the extreme version of career women are not represented.
A workaholic woman is not just boring and unattractive. She's cold and distant. It's frustrating to have a relationship with a workaholic.

Unit1 · Answer

Don't judge us all based on one.
I myself date only strong and independent women, who kick ass in careers. It's the only women I feel attraction to.
Party clubbing girls are generally trash as they go there for male attention center and potentially cheating on their boyfriend. That's a stereotype but it rings true often enough.

AndrewMG · Answer

I don't think there's any correlation between job's and whether someone's boring or entertaining. Though even as I type that I have found in my old job (Bar work), the majority of people I met were far more interesting than the people I meet now (Insurance/office job)... so basically I have no idea! lol

Wowgirl30q · Answer

He wants to pay for everything I guess. The Prostitution industry isn't what it use to be. Trust me...😂😂

Anonymous · Answer

I think men see party girls as an easy pump and dump. I know so many ex party girls that are over 30 single mothers.

chriscdi · Answer

whoever said that must not be looking for a strong relationship, if i was ganna look for a girl for a serious relationship i would choose a smart intelligent girl that has different sides to her personality, humor, intelligence, kindness, charm and thats a dun spirit, for me a party gal would be too much

Lovethedove · Answer

Lol I’m sure those are the same guys complaining about those party girls sucking them financially dry during divorce. How women only take from men etc

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Not sure that it is as black and white as it might seem at first glance.
Women who are strictly party girls are not for LTR in my opinion. Strictly career women can be very boring because they do not have or make time to have fun.

Most women I have encountered are neither extreme. A good mix of fun and seriousness is what I try to find.

aloha96 · Answer

Party people are trash, reminds me of high school where people only cared about themselves and partying + immaturity

ultimega · Answer

The problem people don't realise that the ones who work hard, play hard.  And usually the workaholic career types are usually saving towards something big its not a case of be just boring.

Kurαȷ · Answer

Considering that the majority of men are only really attracted to women sexually, yes, for the most part.

brendon76 · Answer

While a “party girl” can be and typically is pretty hot, it’s typically only surface. I prefer the “career girl” who while also hot is even sexier because she has something to say and can keep up with me... someone who is a “career guy”.

Anonymous · Answer

I prefer neither.

The party girl is not appealing. Their personality is still perfectly possible of being vapid, but even disregarding that, party girl lifestyle is gross.

The career woman, invests too much in her career and thinks I care about that when seeking a partner. Their attire is too professional and they wear too much makeup for my taste. There's this pretension about them which is a turn off.

ShadowofRegret · Answer

I choose the career woman. Career women usually are more classy, intelligent and mature. Party girls usually are more immature, irresponsible and unfaithful.

BeHappy1985 · Answer

I think the guy in question was ither a child or knew he didn't have mych to offer himself and would not have a chance with a career women so he went with cheap thrills instead.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys usually want party girls for sex and housewives for marriage. Career woman isn't the first choice in either one of these tbh. But for a serious relationship, they still are far more desirable than party girls, because party girls are almost always sluts, and no sane guy wants anything serious with a slut

OvershareGamer · Answer

Neither. 1. The problem with party girls is they are all cheaters and shallow. 2. The problem with career women is they are all self righteous, stuck up, and too good for the world.

hansukota · Answer

It actually depends on what your into. Career women are preferred more by guys who are interested in a relationship, party girls are more of a one night stand d or a short relationship, nothing serious

AD240pCharlie · Answer

Well, of course you need to be able to relax and just have fun at times, but you still need to have a goal for your future. That doesn't mean that you can't go out to drink with your friends on a Friday night once in a while.

wankiam · Answer

in the uk the two are not mutually exclusive. infact many business people party when they get out of work to destress

Ripper_E · Answer

Always a career woman. Yea she'd be busy a lot, but that would only increase my desire for her. That also tells me she is hard working and passionate, which also makes me desire her more.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Nah, I respect a career woman more than I do a party girl. Party girls are great to fuck and mess around with.. but if a man wants someone serious, and to be able to take a woman seriously, she needs to be career driven!

Anonymous · Answer

I prefer the career women because she won’t expect me to support her and her lifestyle for free like most women now a days seem to want

winterfox10 · Answer

well most of the career women I know are also major partiers... and I find most people categorically boring as shit so... I'm not sure where that puts me.

Bax854 · Answer

I just want Career women to be fun and not so stuck up!!! What I mean is that they can get things done but they are also laid back at the same time and not all batshit crazy or have a "I know everything attitude"

Selena98 · Answer

I like women that can be both I don’t wanna date a woman who a workaholic or woman who go clubbing all the time. Plus I like going out have a good time not necessarily to the bars/clubs but out for coffee or whatever.

311WasAnInsideJam · Answer

I prefer a career girl in the streets and a party girl in the sheets

Jager66 · Answer

Not a fan of party girls or work aholics

Mitch-french · Answer

Party girls are fun of course, but only for like a couple of hours. Once you got laid, boring. Carter women on the other hand can be fun lifelong.

sasukeuchiha7 · Answer

The party girl is boring for me. I don't want to go out on weekends and partying and drink like some deranged animal. Plus the career woman is more stable and secure on the long run.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Meh. A little partying isn't bad. I don't want a nun that's for sure; but I do like a woman who is go gettter and has ambitions to succeed in life and works hard at her career.

Alice2398 · Answer

I consider myself a party girl / career women. Work hard =party hard

Anonymous · Answer

Party girls make me uneasy. I'd never want to be with one. Career women are interesting and much more socially attractive to me.

zurico · Answer

Hot and down to earth is always going to be more attractive but career girls can be party girls at night as well and I have seen many be

Anonymous · Answer

party girls mostly wants to hook up, get boys and sex get drunk and not very smart

Paultrippinthefout · Answer

Party girls aren’t serious about much except themselves. Usually cheaters and players. Take the girl ready to get in with life any day. Former party girls turned career women preferred :)

Dolemite510 · Answer

I think it needs to be a balance of the two, I want a girl that’s able to take care of herself but who knows how to kick back and have fun when she has time

Poormanscomedian · Answer

I prefer women that can think and have a mind. Not bimbos that want to give you sexual diseases and star in porn. I really hate their boobs are bigger than their brain.

MrMilti · Answer

Personally, I consider Party Girls boring. They have nothing else to talk about besides partying...

Blueeyes81 · Answer

I liked the party girls when I myself was a partier. A party girl is about the biggest turn off for me nowadays.

zagor · Answer

The guy who said that is an idiot. Lots of career women like to party. Who wants someone who will snort up all your money.

BrownBratzDoll · Answer

I'm more career straight laced. I prefer to hang with party women

loveslongnails · Answer

Party girls are good for... partying. But you can't party forever. They're usually quite disposable.

BabyBirdy · Answer

Get you somebody that can do both 😉

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