Are there any genuinely nice guys out there?

[Anonymous]

I don't know of any guys that aren't idiots, I know that's mean and very generalised but I'm starting to believe there's not, please can people tell me about how happy their relationships are?

Most guys are idiots

Not all guys are idiots

[Anonymous]

Look, I don't know what age you are but the thing says under 18 so let me just say, guys at your age are predominantly idiots.
I don't mean it as a criticism, it's just that they are full of raging hormones and confusion alongside struggling to fit in with their peers etc. So maybe they don't always behave in a way that seems logical or is what girls might consider to be nice or considerate.
But I have a lot of guy friends and interact with a lot of guys and I swear they get better once they get a bit older (my circles are 20-26 ish).
So my advice is leave the dating thing alone, you have your whole lift, for now focus on yourself, friends and study!
Best of luck

[Asker]

Thank you, I actually really needed this x

[Opinion Owner]

No worries girl! Don't stress it, things genuinely get much clearer and easier in your 20s (thank god!) :)

[PrincessGrail]

Not all guys are idiots

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Look at some answers here in questions that you find interesting and look for what guys said. I am sure you will find idiots and jerks, but also good guys that give really good advice and are actually trying to help the asker.
In resume, this world has a bit of evertything and you can see that in this site. Don't worry there are good guys out there and sooner or later you will meet them

[Asker]

Thank you x

[Maguel]

You are not lying when you say that genuinely nice guys are scarce but they are out there. Hiding and only 1 way of finding them. Gerting to know more guys. Risky game with odds that might often not be in your favour but get lucky once and it will all be worth it in the end.

[Asker]

Haha thank you x

[Muhi45]

Not all guys are. Depends on which types of guys and your Social club for example guys who use alcohol, drugs, smoke, club goers, atheists, muslims, idol worshippers. if these are your types then surely you have some of the same types of bad characteristics. Don't sleep with unmarried/Married guys this is a bad character. THESE ARE ALARMS. But since I am a christian this social club is not for me. Following Jesus is the best decision in my life. I Have learnt to love & respect women, to be humble , to forgive and not to allow my bad past experience to influence my future. I am not one of those guys you are saying and GOD helps me to solve difficult problems like this everyday. SOMETIMES THE WAY I SOLVE MY PROBLEMS IS NOT THE WAY THAT YOU SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS. I ALWAYS SEEK WISDOM ABOVE ALL THINGS BECAUSE I KNOW I'M NOT PERFECT BUT GOD IS ABLE TO PERFECT ME. I ALWAYS PRAY FOR GOD TO GIVE ME WISDOM THAT'S WHY I DON'T FALL IN THAT CATEGORY OF YOURS. THE ALCOHOLICS, DRUG ADDICTS, ATHEISTS, SMOKERS, CLUB GOERS , MUSLIMS I MEAN ALL UNBELIEVER WILL ALWAYS HAVE MORE PERSONALITY PROBLEMS THAN TRUE CHRISTIANS WHO LOVE GOD WITH ALL THEIR HEART. JESUS IS THE ANSWER TO ALL OF YOUR QUESTIONS. HE IS THE REASON WHY I CAN ANSWER HARD QUESTIONS LIKE THIS ONE.-THAT'S WHY WE NEED TO INCLUDE GOD INTO OUR QUESTIONS TO SOLVE THESE PROBLEMS. BECAUSE HE UNDERSTANDS US BETTER THAN WE UNDERSTAND OURSELVES.

[GrayMatters]

I’ll bet there are probably one or two guys in your class who are quiet and thoughtful, that you’ve probably overlooked. But it’s normal for guys take longer to become more mature.

[Asker]

Thank you

[z2000]

I mean, I wish most guys where idiots, cause then the bar would be so low then. But there definitly are "nice guys". If your not finding them, try going outside what ever social zone you normally meet guys in.

[Anonymous]

Well I'm not a nice guy those are losers posing. I'm a gentleman who is sometimes stupid like all guys. We don't think emotionally so we often mistakenly hurt girls with what we say.

I say change social group to find better guys.

[ColHathi]

I mean "nice" is subjective, but I try to be :) Can't help you with the idiot part though.

[boggboss]

Clearly not all guys are idiots but if u are looking for a nice guy you have to define what that is

[Asker]

Thank you

[boggboss]

Lol no need to say thanks should be just known lol it's like me asking do all girls cheat ofc not lol

[Asker]

Haha true

[boggboss]

We all have potential for good and bad but good luck out there

[JCT666]

They do exist. But at your age, guys around you are still boys, so let them be. Just wait until you get into college or something, you'll meet nicer people there.

[Thatsamazing]

I dunno, but related: Are weird, nonsense blanket-statement questions, weird nonsense blanket-statement questions?

[ccal28]

At you're age they're mostly hormonal and immature. Once they grow up a little bit they'll change more.

[Asker]

Thank you

[ccal28]

You're welcome.

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

What makes someone an idiot varies in opinion all around the world. Same thing with nice.

[ex-gager]

Not all guys are idiots, just look near by u, u wil find a nice guy, and I'm not happy in a relationship as I'm still single 😂😂

[weirdoweirdo]

I'm not a "nice guy" but Im.. well.. Normal I guess? dont mind my user name lol Im probabaly annoying tho so...

[genericname85]

yup. all up tin the friendzone. it's those you rejected cause it seemed boring or too easy.

[Dsg1193]

As a person that has no experience with men, I’m very cynical towards that gender 😂

[Logorithim]

Plenty of us are

[Texaskid1]

Yes.

And they are all incel dweebs.

[Anonymous]

Shut up and become lesbian if you hate men so much

[Opinion Owner]

You are just a typical modern feminist always blaming men and thats the reason guys dont want to be with you long term

[ItsEros]

Of course there are.

[DeviloftheValleys]

Try r/niceguys.