Guys, do you consider yourself a nice guy?

[YesterdaysChild]

Or are you mean? If so, how did you get that way? Wait! Don't tell me, a woman, right?

[JacobJordan]

Wife response: my husband is definitely a nice person he was already a good person and a nice person when I met him. Well spoken, thoughtful, considerate. He would come into the restaurant and order 4 or 5 meals at a time with only 1 being for the restaurant after seeing him and serving I asked why he was always ordering so much food if he wasn't eating it. He said that their was a group of young homeless people not even 18 that were a couple blocks away asking for money because their parents kicked them out. So he was bringing them food. He did this every day for a couple weeks and then he brought them in with him. They made a regular appearance even after we started dating until they managed to get a job and an apartment. They still contact him (16 years later) regularly with updates on how life is going for them.

[YesterdaysChild]

Ever wonder why they got kicked out?

[JacobJordan]

I'll field that one. I actually know why. 3 of them were kicked out because of who they liked (2 were bisexual girls) the 3rd was gay. And the 4th because his mom wanted to start a new family with her new man and the new man said he had to go. And yes that mom actually had that reputation around town. She has 3 kids from 3 guys first 2 were taken by cps/dcf and he was the unlucky 3rd victim made it to 16 before that happened. He's doing a lot better now. All of them are

[YesterdaysChild]

@JacobJordan Good to hear. Some parents shouldn't replicate. 🙄😅

[JacobJordan]

Too true

[blueonblack22]

I used to be a nice guy but not anymore. However I haven’t gotten necessarily mean either. I just have a much better radar to pick up on female bullshit nowadays. I won’t tolerate it like I once did. Wised a lot in recent years.

But in recent times I’ve had several women attempt to pry one way favors from me. Not all romantic scenarios. I don’t get angry but I don’t give into their bs. I just flat out told them no and then cut them off. Never look back.

It’s not worth the mental energy or worse the resentment if I gave in to it. But the fact I’ve encountered so many women looking for hand outs is really depressing tbh.

I want to treat a decent women good only if she deserves it. She needs to respect me and be grateful. However I also think more and more women trying to do this crap in “modern” society. It’s all about what they can get away with in the moment.

[YesterdaysChild]

You do know you can say that about a lot of men too, especially talking about favors, if you know what I mean.

[blueonblack22]

You are from a different generation. You have no idea how horrible “modern” have gotten nowadays when it comes to entitlement.

Also that “favor” women can provide is a consensual choice and supposed to be a mutually pleasurable experience. But why do women still get to call that “a favor” in the modern age with advanced birth control and little/no societal judgment for female promiscuity?

Taking advantage of someone for money is far more selfish. Exponentially more selfish. It completely contradicts “gender equality” too. Women are supposed to be “strong and independent” in the modern world, right?

At least when someone gets used for sex they are still be valued for something they naturally have. Objectifying yes. Not saying it’s okay either. But still the person desires something from a biological impulse that the other person naturally can offer.

by the way I have had women in my younger years “use me” for that too. It did leave me with a very empty feeling afterwards but nowhere near the resentment and hatred I felt for being used for money or other one way favors. Not even close.

[YesterdaysChild]

It happens. You are not alone in that ring.
https://youtu.be/dsbdvzCHXMY?si=PtTDEhL7PQrMmxJd

[sage2021]

I just wanted to say my favorite Alice Cooper song is Me and You.

That song probably did give guys ideas about not gonna be a nice guy anymore! Screw them bitches 🤬

[YesterdaysChild]

😯🤣😅

[FunkyMonkee]

I'm pretty sure it's called, "You And Me".

[YesterdaysChild]

@FunkyMonkee Which one of you is dyslexic?

[FunkyMonkee]

Must be you.
https://www.45cat.com/record/wbs8349

[YesterdaysChild]

@FunkyMonkee "Don't Do Me Like That" 😚

[FunkyMonkee]

Soorry, I thought you were the one that said that.

[lightbulb27]

always been nice. I had to learn how to manage myself, it's work... being too nice is bad.

Alice is quite a nice Christian guy... wonder if his snake is still alive...

[YesterdaysChild]

When did that happen? I find that hard to believe having seen his performances and heard his songs.

[lightbulb27]

long ago... www.christiantoday.com/.../127858.htm

Very relatable life story...
Hulk Hogan recently as well. dropping like flies... go Jesus!

[aceleon]

nope, i'm your usually arrogant prick, who makes fun of everyone and gets under everyones skin, the wildcard who no one can predict his reactions, also the one with serious anger issues, oh also never cared about woman, not since age 7, my one and only love happened then and it didn't had a heartbreaking way either, it was puppy love with slightly more intimate (like actually kissing) i moved into another city and finish. no getting my heart broken by a woman or lovingthe wrong girl or such things since like i said my romantic interest for girls died when i was 7, the rest was just sexual interest with no actual emotional attachment aside from possesiveness.

[YesterdaysChild]

Come on, you can't judge anything of life at age 7. You are going to check out of life just because of something that happened 14 years ago?

[aceleon]

Because of? Didn't i write there that i'm neither Said or heart broken about it cuz there is nothing to be sad about? Also i didn't gave up on anything, i never cared about it in the first place through that 14 year i saw many couples, married or not, happy or dysfunctional but all of them awaken 1 emotion inside me, it was lame a d kinda too unnecessary, People have different needs and desires from life, for me it was never a mate, if i desire anything that is brothers (friends or relatives doesn't matter it's same) brother (s) to stay side by side, to live and grow old together, brothers to carry each others coffin, brothers Who have no expectations or benefitting from each other, Who loves each other unconditionally, only 1 reason needed "he/they are my brother (s)" that's the kind of bond i want, not the let's go on pointless dates, have sex and use each other to orgasm, marry one Day so i can stuck on your life officially too as if i'm not eating away your every awaken moment with either the unwanted responsibilities i took when we started this shit or my trust and faith in you always getting tested, if anything i see relationships as having a symbiote only real differences are 1-they don't give you incredible powers 2- none of them can be as trustworthy and reliable as Venom and 3- one is feeding off of my internal organs if i left him hungry the other ears away my very soul, time and energy.

[HawkPerception]

I think I've tried my entire life to be kind to everyone around me or people that I interact with. However there are people who piss me off or who are just fucking stupid that I have no intention kind to. But overall I would consider myself a nice guy. I'm always extremely considerate of others feelings and comfort around me, always making taking extra effort to make people feel comfortable. If there's someone that looks alone at a party, guy or girl, I'll try to talk with them and get them to socialize even if I'm not the most social myself. If someone is crying around me or looks like they need help, I'll help without hesitation. If I'm on public transit and there's a lady, child or older person that looks like they could use a seat more than me, I'm giving up my seat. I can go on and on about scenarios, but I do genuinely think I'm a nice dude.

[Gopackers02]

I’m a nice guy. Back when I was younger I don't know just because 11-14 I couldn’t manage myself. But ever since then I learned to handle my emotions. But I like to treat people with respect and kindness because I know how it feels to be treated bad and basically sh*t on daily due to a bad middle school experience. I don’t want others dealing with that. But it comes at a negative cost where I’m too nice sometimes.

[YesterdaysChild]

Middle School can be a horrible place to go. I had bad experiences there too that bother me still. But, you just have to forget it and move on in your life.

[Sonorous]

I don't. Not because I'm not nice. I can & often am very nice & I enjoy being that way towards deserving people. But, I prefer to not just be on one end of the spectrum.

I believe we're all capable of both extremes. So to limit myself just to the one that sounds good really isn't accurate to reality, in my opinion. There's a time for being nice & there's a time for being stern. Both are useful.

[FunkyMonkee]

Very much so. I met Alice one and he was a really nice guy. Like him, I open doors fort little old ladies and help the blind to see but always get kicked around and abused.

[FunkyMonkee]

I went doewnstairs foor breakfast a while ago, stepped out on the front porch to see if there were any bunnies looking for bread and found this huge off-white bird roaming around in the yard!! At first, I had no idea what kind of bird it was but eventually, it came to me, I'm pretty sure it was a pheasant!. I've never seen one before except in pictures, movies or t, v.! I stood there and watched it peck at the ground and decided to toss it a slice of the bread I give to the bunnies. It ignored the bread but kept wandering around the yard for at least another hour. If I see deer in the yard, and I have apples, I'll give them some.
I've been feeding the bunnies for the bulk of this year but they still don't completely trust me, for some reason. They come up on the porch, take the bread from my hand, sit right in front of me and eat it and run around at my feet but, they are still easily scared by sudden movements. You'd think that they'd know, by now, that I have no intention of hurting them. The deer hardly ever are scared of me.

[YesterdaysChild]

I had a squirrel that would climb up the corner of my house to the 2nd floor balcony and take peanuts out of my hand. It would sit right there on the railing and eat it. It even let me touch it. I thin an owl finally got it because it disappeared. 😞

[FunkyMonkee]

There's a picture of me when I was about 14 standing in the back yard with a squirrel sitting in my hand eating the nuts I had for it.
Sometimes, we'd drive the squirrels nuts! We'd have peanuts for them, still in the shell, they eat them for a while and then start burying them so, I'd follow him to see where he buried it, dig it up and then go back home, and give him the same nut.
And, I've allowed several families of mourningdoves to nest in my bedroom window sill over the years.

[YesterdaysChild]

The blue jays wait for them to bury the peanut and then go steal it.

[YesterdaysChild]

I hear squirrels forget where they buried 90% of the nuts/peanuts they get.

[FunkyMonkee]

I think I heard something close to that, too.

[exitseven]

Most of the time. It takes a long time to get on my naughty list but once you get there it is hard to get off.

[YesterdaysChild]

@exitseven A perpetual shit list?

[exitseven]

Exactly.

[Novemberr_]

I cannot interpret about me as being myself. Now that everyone considers themselves a perfect oerson, however it's definitely not. People should accept and love each other with their flaws.

[YesterdaysChild]

I agree.

[pickles77]

I’m pretty nice but not always. I would at least consider myself considerate of other people’s feelings because I am bound by that In a sense, if I say something that hurts someone then I will feel that pain put on myself. So for me to live peacefully I have to be a peaceful person so you could say I get along with pretty much everyone. Even those I don’t like however It’s more important to me to be wise then to be mean to someone I don’t like.

[YesterdaysChild]

Do you get along with that meat paddy and lettuce?

[pickles77]

You had too 🤣 actually my gamer tag is lettuce 🥬

[YesterdaysChild]

OK, so where do you use the tag Meat Head seeing as you have the other 2 covered? 🤔😅

[pickles77]

That was pretty rude for no reason

[YesterdaysChild]

I'm joking with you. I wasn't trying to be rude. It just natural since you had tags for the lettuce and pickles. Maybe I should have left the "head" off it. My bad. 🤐

[pickles77]

Okay no worries

[YesterdaysChild]

Sweet or dill? j/k 😜

[pickles77]

Dill haha

[sirderpsalot123]

try to be, but there is always room for improvement and growth.

[YesterdaysChild]

Definitely as no one is perfect.

[sirderpsalot123]

Very true

[worldscolide]

No, But my wife says i am. Shows how much i know lol

[andreasderjuengere]

I am nice. Because Mom had asked me to.
So - in away - a girl indeed is the reason.
Anyhow - my nice can be very selective :)

[YesterdaysChild]

As long as you have sugar?

[andreasderjuengere]

Sure I'll have sugar, baby :D

[YesterdaysChild]

You sound like Ash.

[andreasderjuengere]

I don't know who that is. I just tried to appear funny :D

[YesterdaysChild]

From the Evil Dead franchise.
https://youtu.be/j588xonGeuk?si=DVQ8d4mKiJIr4SIH

[andreasderjuengere]

yepp - some people taste better than others

[OfDeath]

Yes. I am a kind, gentle person. I have never once been convicted of a serious crime such as murder or assault resulting in grievous injury or anything like that.

[YesterdaysChild]

Maybe not convicted, but maybe arrested?

[OfDeath]

No, the worst I’ve had was an order to leave a particular district for 24 hours. And I was wrongfully accused.

[sawno]

I would yeah, just my personality ever since I realistically developed one.

[ThrillSeeker01]

I think I'm nice. But I do wonder if my partner thinks I am, or not, sometimes. Another set of eyes can see things I don't.

[YesterdaysChild]

Try asking girls or friends you know what they think.

[KrakenAttackin]

Every woman in my life, including my mother, has at one point called me an "asshole". You be the judge.

[YesterdaysChild]

So they were attackin' the Kraken?

[KrakenAttackin]

@yesterdayschild. Pretty much, and that's ok.

[Sparkie460]

I've been told by a lot of people that I'm a nice guy.

[YesterdaysChild]

How many is a lot? Like as many as there are cars in the Disneyland parking lot?

[Sparkie460]

No. I've never been to Disneyland, but maybe 20 or 30 people

[exitseven]

@yesterdayschild I can attest that @sparkie460 is a nice guy.

[sage2021]

@Sparkie460
Who told you that? 🤗

[Sparkie460]

@sage2021 several people on here, total strangers, friends and family members.

[sage2021]

@Sparkie460
Just teasing you. You really are a nice guys!

[Sparkie460]

@sage2021 thank you. You're nice too.

[love_conquers_lust]

@sage2021 Will also confirm. @sparkie460 is a good guy.

[Sparkie460]

@love_conquers_lust thank you 😊

[Jerre]

Yes, I consider myself a nice guy, perhaps too nice.

[YesterdaysChild]

How can anyone be too nice?

[Jerre]

I’m kind, charatibe to people who need help. Overall, just a kind guy.

[_blank_]

Yes, I am a nice guy. That's the reason I'm still single.

[Billlewis]

I'm nice, sweet and pussy free... lol

[YesterdaysChild]

I don't know where to start on that. 😯