Questions: Dating

So my total body count is 11 and I'm 26:
- lost my vcard at 18
- (19 years old) about 11 months later no2 and two months after no3
- (20 years old) 7 months later no4, 7 months later no5
- (21 years old) 2 months later No6, 2 months later no7, no8 (same week), two weeks later no9, two weeks later no10 (went out for two weeks), two weeks later no11
- (22-26) been out with no one.

I've been a bit nervous over it, but then again I remember all my friends at the time who had a different guy every weekend sometimes even 3/4 different guys in the same week, so that makes me feel better about myself.

Like say you cancel a date, and he doesn't try to chase you after that, or you don't return his texts, and he stops trying to text you. Or, he's really quiet during the date, and looks unimpressed by you. Does that make you feel insecure and make you try to have sex with him to try and prove yourself to him that you're a caring individual and not a bad, distant person?