Women having sex too fast?

[Anonymous]

I see so many women having sex with the guy they meet very fast and then complain that he lost interest or doesn't want a relationship.

Yesterday, I met a friend who was hooking up with a guy and in the midst of shopping, she texted him, asking him to come over to her house. She told me he's amazing in bed.

However, the guy didn't reply and didn't come either and she sent screenshot where he replied several hours later and mocked her for being immature when she got angry at him for not coming over.

Another girl I knew was posting instagram stories of a guy she was seeing of him cooking, his books etc and turns out he was only using her for sex and then dumped her and left.

So in the end, is giving sex too soon good? Or is it bad?

[Guy13]

Firstly, someone should tell your friend that having sex does not grant her "Ownership" rights. Because she screws me does not mean that I am obligated to your communication or her in any way. We do not respect Easy as "Wifey material". When you have sex is paramount decision.

Secondly, everyone knows that "giving it up early" will absolutely lead to poorer relational outcomes. This is nothing earth shattering. Even though there is a feeling of connectedness and relationship it is a false positive. Once the relationship passions die down then the relationship ends... Both, usually hop to next available body.

[Anonymous]

It’s a tough call. I realized a long time ago that sometimes it doesn’t matter when you have sex, if the guy has no intention of becoming serious with you then he’s going to ghost or lose interest no matter what. I also realized that regardless of when you first hook up with a guy, you’ve got to consider the fact that he could change afterwards and decide if that’s something you can live with. I’ve seen all sorts of outcomes: one night stand turns into a serious relationship, fling turns into marriage, having a success story from online dating. You never know what cards you will be dealt. So as practice, I personally wouldn’t have sex too soon given my morals, but I don't know how much it matters for someone else if the outcome will potentially be the same.

[LazerBean]

In short, it is bad and will significantly decrease the chance of the relationship being of any consequence.

[genericname85]

i think a guy losing interest isn't caused by "too quick sex". i thinkactually it shortens the matching process. like normally a guy would date like 2 months or longer before sex. pretty big waste of time if you can find that she's not for you way earlier.

i do think however there's a balance to be struck. because not only women, also men should be careful who they have sex with. stds are a thing and being careless makes you a bad partner. no matter which gender you happen to be.

[Anonymous]

The problem isn't sex. The problem is the average person is a horrible judge of character. I had to study to learn what a good person was... Seriously.
Most people aren't shit. Most people can't tell the difference.

[Jessica405]

It can be fatal for any budding relationship. I know I took a flyer with my partner by moving in with him after a month, but it has worked. I could have lost my v-card for nothing had it gone wrong.

[slatyb]

Have sex if you want to have sex. Enjoy it if possible, and don't regret it.

Women can't trade sex for love or commitment. If they understand that, then they won't be disappointed.

[HateyouxD]

Nah I feel a user will always be a user. Holding out on sex does nothjng!! he's either a good man or not

[MementoMori777]

It's always bad for the person that is seeking for something serious, people shouldn't rush into anything

[PatriceONeal]

Clearly it's bad. But you won't hear us complain. Go feminism! One night stands and no commitment obligation. What a dream come true for sleaziness and a terrible society.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

She was hooking up with the guy. If you enter with the premise of sex and expect something more later, then you're doing it wrong.

[KrakenAttackin]

How about you stop chasing fuckboy Chads?

[Anonymous]

Casual sex almost always ends badly.