Questions: Dating

This cute girl started recently and she is quite nice. I didn’t think too much initially when she was presented (maybe that she is cute but that’s all). But the past couple of months I found that she has a really cool personality. Really nice, smart, sense of humour. She remembered some details for me even tho we are in different departments. We joke around. We had a very nice conversation about her hometown while travelling from work once and it seemed that she enjoyed our brief time then. However I never really though anything for my colleagues ever. For me they are just colleagues. I am kinda one of the cool colleagues with whom you can always talk to and get help and people usually expect me to do something in a convo. But here I am wondering after I kinda got nervous talking to her the other day.. heart pumping, weird. There is this one colleague who gives her a lot of attention and sits next to her. They joke around and stuff. Even gave her “jokingly” a “my-work-wife” bracelet. Yesterday I got a notification for her profile in Facebook. Was wondering if should just add her (I rarely add coworkers). I can talk shit in front of people for hours, but when it comes to the romantic side of things, I am kinda weak. So maybe just sit on my ass and pass? I have enough work and sh*t to ignore her but I find myself thinking…maybe she is just a good person and I shouldn’t mix things (today she even gave me free lasagna that she made for some cook-off they were doing at her department…talk about the way to a man’s hearth is his stomach.) So continue talking to her, add her on Fb and plan to ask her out?

We follow each other we met on Halloween at a house party.
She actually came up to me and spoke I think. She goes to another university in the city, very general conversation. Pretty Italian girl. What stopped me talking to her was that she follows materialistic stuff.

What would I say to her?

Would you take someone you’re dating not ever being jealous as a sign they trust you completely or that they must not care about you all that much? Or something entirely different?

so i mean at all. Like not even the tiniest bit. Like even if you were to hug an ex of yours right in front of them, they just don’t get jealous.

how would you feel about that?

here's a bunch of reddit posts about partners not being jealous and it actually bothers them.

https://duckduckgo.com/?q=partner+does+not+get+jealous+reddit&ia=web