What Makes a Guy Creepy?

[nightowl_28]

What attributes or behaviors are creepy? Is a guy being ugly showing interest automatically ugly?
I worry about this daily and stay away from women I might be interested in due to this

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I think a lot of it boils down to not being able to take a hint. If you can read body language really well and have self-awareness and social awareness, you generally don't have to worry about it.

Also just basic courtesy. If I use an example of a nightclub, if you spot a woman dancing, don't approach from behind and start grinding up on her. That's too forward and borderline assault. Approach her from the front and ask her how it's going, get in a chat, and maybe you two can start dancing together.

I used the nightclub analogy since it's very easy to understand but same idea verbally and in any environment. You can have fun and play with women, just don't do it in an overly forward or weird way.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Also I think it helps to try not to get ahead of ourselves. Like I think lots of guys are at greater risk coming off creepy if they talk to a brand new girl already with the plan of taking them out on a date, or worse, sleep with them.

It helps to make a smaller, more immediate goal like just getting the brand new girl to smile, laugh, to have a nice conversation with her (and don't make it all about her; look for a nice conversation for you too so that you don't risk coming off like you're just trying things to impress her).

Then if you succeed in that girl and you're having a nice conversation and she's smiling and laughing and showing interest, then you can move to the next step of planning to take her on a date. One little step at a time. A lot of people who end up coming off creepy skip steps either in their actions or in their minds. So try to think one step at a time.

[Summeroflove]

What makes someone creepy to everyone person is different. But if someone unreasonably wants to jump to conclusions. They aren’t worth your time and people will judge you no matter what you do or who you are.

It depends on who they are and their intentions. If someone’s perverted or has bad will. Then they’re creepy flat out. Sometimes people may give off a creepy vibe despite being a good person, while others are wolves in sheeps clothing

[laly520]

stalking

staring all time with no word

not respecting personal space

talking about sexual shit since first minute

[nightowl_28]

So being "unattractive" or "ugly" is not automatically creepy?

[nightowl_28]

I think I'm ugly

[laly520]

being unattractive isn't creepy
lemme take a look
no, u dont look ugly

[nightowl_28]

Really so it's mostly in my head?

[laly520]

yes its in ur head
u aren't ugly at all

[nightowl_28]

What would a woman even find attractive about me?

[laly520]

depends on woman I think
u have nice smile so that could be it

[Account]

Their inability to grasp the concept of private space/bubble.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Creepy is being intimidating/scary.
What anyone finds creepy is going to vary, but yes a lot of people are creeped out if someone they are not attracted to hits on them.

[TheSpaceGnome]

The thing is though, if you only date a best friend, then you already know what she thinks of you, the risk is when you hit on a stranger.

[tremendousfern]

Please consult this helpful and simple guide on what kind of behavior is creepy or not creepy when interacting with women.

[wiltingrosepetal]

It's not appearance that makes a guy creepy, it's how he acts. If I'm getting stared at by a guy, or followed, or grabbed, I'm going to feel weirded out 😃

[A_Bell]

Being too into you too quickly with too much attention.

Also, sadly, it doesn't help if they are ugly, but it's just one factor and not the most important.

[magiusX26]

her opinion of his looks. it has been proven numerous times that the only difference between a guy being "creepy" or not is in how attractive the woman finds him. meaning it is purely subjective and in her control.

[Sonorous]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/MvnumV1izOE

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[WhitneySnow]

You’re not ugly. Most people aren’t. They’re average. And creepy is about behavior, not looks.

[Nikki1989]

Constant staring without saying a word will do it.

[JacobJordan]

Absolutely anything and everything mate. Know this though it is just the shitty women the ones that deserve a good partner

[Anonymous]

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[spoole]

A passive guy that lingers and stares rather than introduce himself and clarify his intentions. Like a predator stalking prey. Creepy.

[DarkLegacy]

Women creep shame men based on what they look like and whether they have Autism/learning disabilities

[Anonymous]

Continuing to bother you when you've told them you don't want their attention. It doesn't matter whether they're good looking or not.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

If he send you an unsolicited dick pic. 🤢🤮

[MaxUsefull]

an ugly man who looks at women too much: creepy

a handsome man who looks at women too much: a focused guy

[Anonymous]

Well if he is ugly he is automatically creepy to a girl so I guess you can’t cold approach, maybe other ways of doing it

[Anonymous]

It's very simple to boil down

Are you a guy
If yes you're a creep

[Anonymous]

Another reminder of how I mindset has changed

[Curiositykilledcat7]

I like creepy it’s a huge turn on

[IslaTheWitch]

for me all extreme behaviors...

[MemeSupreme]

just be normal lol read social cues

[SotiCoto]

Stealth... presumably.

[whistlingwh0res]

chasing sugar mama

[Anonymous]

Being ugly.