What is your tolerance with red flags?

[Danny_dan92]

The second I see one, I’m gone.

[Bethany22]

I'm probably more tolerant than I should be. Signs that a guy isn't as interested in me as I am with him, or that he has the complete opposite lifestyle from mine (that I always thought would mean a guy is not relationship material for any woman, not just me), I wind up overlooking even though they should be deal breakers. I start realizing that actually, his opposite lifestyle compliments my hobbies quite well, whereby it's a blessing in disguise that I met him. But then later down the road it's revealed that I was right about the part where he wasn't as interested in me as I with him.

[Danny_dan92]

I’ve heard the phrase opposites attract… but in my experience it’s actually better to have things in common than to have differences…

Where it changes is that there needs to be some balance.

For example. Say a couple both like going to the gym.

It’s better to do your own things at the gym rather than workout together. This creates balance, aside from that. Time apart even if it’s in situations like this one, is healthy for the relationship

[Bethany22]

Good point!

[Danny_dan92]

Thanks

[msmissydc]

isn't the definition of red flags something you can NOT tolerate? So yes. If I see a red flag I am gone.

[Danny_dan92]

Well yes, but sometimes people ignore red flags just cause of another trait they happen to really like.

[Anonymous]

went through a bad situation at a local hangout , literally ignored dozens of red flags at that spot and people i meet there. until i finally stopped going a couple months ago.

made the mistake of ignoring obvious red flags until it was too late to do anything about it other than avoid the place and people i meet there

[JacobJordan]

Zero. I don't do red flags and I have enough money that if I see a red flag I'm out. Can always find another woman to spend money on. Only worthwhile women get that treatment though. Like my wife

[naartjie]

I tend to stick around longer than I should. I feel too bad for people and always try see the good, always try give them the chance to do and be good. Of course I end up hurt so I can’t be mad at them.

[Sonorous]

Depends on the severity of the red flag. Some are worse than others & should be taken more seriously. Some aren't as bad & don't need to be taken as seriously.

[NewgodOmega]

Zero

I am extreme mgtow minimalist and a loner

Loner not lonely there is a difference

[electromagnetic]

None. Questionable things sure but a red flag? Nah.

[MemeSupreme]

everyone's got red flags so im expectin some but when you remind me too much of a bad ex im walkin

[NathanDavis]

I've actually never dealt with one before... lol

[MsBrie]

Three, like I just explained to a certain individual Who wanted to pay for it... UGH.

[shortster]

A red flag is a warning sign; you need only become more cautious.

[Hanrej]

Depends on what they are and put into comparison with possible green flags.

[OddBeMe]

I guess it’s your red flag for bailing. Everyone’s would be different.

[Anonymous]

It's her responsibility to prove to me my suspicions are unfounded.

[StudyingAuthor]

The first one, I'm not investigating.

[exitseven]

It is inversely proportional to how hot she is.

[pethouse]

It depends on what the red flags are

[handsomelad70]

Rather low.

[jimmy2]

Perrty high