What are your red flags🚩?

[bobalife]

Just for fun 😆

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3 mo

What are your own red flags is what I’m asking, not in another person.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Thinking of it, I’ve got kind of a lot…

I am too talkative,

And tend to be a little attention seeking , when I feel insecure.

I also have an easily scattered mind.

As for other people - I tend to trust my instincts about how I feel of them. They are not always right, but I am more forgiving of their red flags.

[Xoirwinkan]

Being talkative and attention seeking are common female traits, don't feel bad.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@Xoirwinkan Thank you, that makes me feel better. ❤️‍🩹

[IloveMacDemarco4]

• I'm really avoidant and get tired of a relationship easily
• I take hours to reply just bc it's too much work
• I'm insecure
• I'll tell every detail about you to my friends

[bobalife]

Tell me why I resonate with this so much esp in my 20s I get tired of someone easily during the get to know you phase or easily walk, long time to respond to msgs, and friends part lol

Everyone has insecurities girl, don’t think that’s a red flag!!

[Rei13]

• Someone that cannot maintain friendships with other people
• They have a lot of drama/it is always something
• Consistently talks bad about other friends or family
• All their exes are crazy/were completely in the wrong
• They got cheated on every relationship (I know this one is mean) and they haven’t worked through that
• Treat people they’re not attracted to poorly
• Rude to customer service workers/servers
• Doesn’t like animals
• Bad Hygiene
• Being unreliable

[888theGreat]

So you want someone that lies? No one will open up to you because you would get upset

[Rei13]

@888theGreat in which regard? Someone that lies should also be on that list lol

[Rei13]

Also just realizes I misread the original question my bad 😅 my red flags are my apparent inability to read, a procrastinator, and fear of abandonment

[AviatorTom]

Most countries' flags have some red in them. Red is the most common colour in a country's flag.

Just for fun...

China has a flag that is mostly red. Monaco, Poland and Indonesia have flags that are half red and half white, very similar to each other, and easy to confuse.

[ohsheeT]

I'm just going to take the easy way and say I'm one big giant red flag because I really don't know I've never thought about it I like most things that I do so I don't really know you pick one for me and I'll write it down

[Still-alive]

mines:

- flakiness (constantly being an hour late to something or longer)
- Disrespect
- Pressuring partner into doing something they aren’t ready for yet (sex, marriage, etc)
- Terrible hygiene (BO, bad breath, uncleanliness etc)
- Not listening to needs and wants
- Saying they will do something and not seeing it through
- Respecting schedules (work schedules or any other obligations)
- Dont bring up exes and compare me to them. Judge me based on my own merits and not in comparison to others

[queenofcardio]

I think you read the question wrong 🤔

[Still-alive]

@queenofcardio Red flags for relationships? or the red flags i give off to others? lol

[queenofcardio]

You are none of these things lol.

[Still-alive]

if its the latter... i suppose its my weight lol... also i still live with the parents despite my age. im a little in flux in regards to my career still.

i think those are about it... if thats what boba meant lol

[Still-alive]

oh my fashion taste could probably use some work too

[queenofcardio]

That's how I interpreted the question

[Still-alive]

@queenofcardio oh one more is i am still paying off some debts. that can be a red flag to some.

[queenofcardio]

We are working on the fashion thing !

[Still-alive]

@update. gotcha lol

mine i would think of people looking in might be:

-my weight
- career in flux
- living with parents still
- Debts
- lack of fashion

pretty much all of these im working on though. :)

[Ms_Facesitter]

Insecure about themselves.

Flirty people.

People who... are abusive. Could hit you, threaten you, try to guilt trip you, ...

A person who is a pessimist.

Someone who doesn't show respect to others.

If they don't like animals. We don't have to get a pet, but if you hate animals in general?

A person who doesn't back up his words with actions.

Somebody who breaks promises

People who can not communicate, especially when something's wrong, during an argument especially.

If they're still hung up on the ex.

Poor Hygiene. I ran into a guy once and it was absolutely horrible. Like gag levels of horrible.

If he agrees with me even if he isn't okay with it. Don't be a doormat, please. Voice your concerns.

Really clingy. Don't expect me to reply fast and often while at work. Sorry, can't do. If we don't share the same hobbies too, we don't have to do everything together.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I believe my own red flags are defined by others, not by me.

So...

• Soy boy, though I mostly eat soy in the form of soy sauce
• Tan skin, it can look dirty
• Agnostic, church lady is not pleased
• Ambiguous, repulsive for literal minds
• Stuck-up, I don't match a lot with country girls
• Inquisitive, questions can feel invasive

[Kaneki05]

I am,
Clingy
Lazy
Mommy issues I suppose
Hate for humans in general (obviously don't apply to someone I like)
Don't like dogs (But I like many other animals and kats the most!)
Sexually inexperienced
And that's about it.

[Grond21]

Oh, lots of them. Just like it's easier to make mistakes than it is to choose the right path, there are a lot more red flags than there are green ones. To name a few,

Substance abuse, bad morals, poor parenting or partner example, bad conflict resolution, selfish, prideful, lazy, emotionally unintelligent, unreliable, addicted, misaligned visions about the essentials, etc

[Grond21]

Oh. I don't believe I have any.

[MrChinaski]

I don't really do red flags.

People do unlikeable things because they are tired or scared or dejected or threatened or uncomfortable or whatever.

I'd rather learn about them and walk away when I know I need to rather than fill in all the gaps with my ignorance.

[MrChinaski]

Update: Then you would need to ask them that question.

[queenofcardio]

I can be annoying

[Still-alive]

Some might interpret it as attentiveness tho lol :P

[queenofcardio]

@Still-alive true and that can be a good thing

[Jonettacali]

Acute adakamana nose.

[Xoirwinkan]

Most people can be, but there's annoying annoying and there's cute annoying

[UrLoveMocha]

I’m very talkative, and I notice things very quickly. So, it ends up becoming a turn off most of the time because I have certain expectations.

[Xoirwinkan]

Probably that I don't have a strong drive or passion for a goal for my future. I think a lot of women prefer a man with a drive to work towards something. Me, I just like to earn a descent amount of money and chill out, see what happens when we get there. To be clear, I save up a big percentage of my paycheck, I just don't know what to do with it yet. Maybe I'll buy a little land later and grow my own vegetables like my inner farmer wants.

[Nikki1989]

Demanding to a point, hyperactive, I have my opinions, and I stick to them.

[NathanDavis]

I can be stubborn

also, my tolerance and patience now come with expiration dates...

[Levin]

Bad hygeine, being overweight and promiscuity. Bad moral character, causing lots of drama. I prefer my peace.

[Sophia1998]

I’m always right, i’m kinda high maintenance but I maintain myself.

[Anonymous]

I don't like passive/submissive and shy girls.

My type of girls are self-confident, dominant, assertive.

[exitseven]

somebody who has lots of boyfriends she has sex with,

[bobalife]

What are your own red flags lol

[TallAnon]

I'm not outgoing and I strongly prefer a calm lifestyle. Anything bothersome is a no for me.

[msc545]

I'm critical and intense, and sometimes I talk far more than I should.

[lilBigPotato]

Arrogance, ignorance, bad hygiene, smoking, too insecure or overconfident,...

[TheLovelyWoman]

Wanting to know about my past which is none of his business.

[FreyaRed]

Shorter than me in heels.☣

[Bklynbadboy12]

You mean things about me that are red flags or things about other people that I think are red flags

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Things about you

[Agape93]

I'm aggressive and don't feel much

[LifeLover91]

Have yellow flags lol joke

[Alex-Snow]

When people rush things especially sex.

[AgentG111]

Nymphomaniac.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Satyriasis would be more fitting lol, that is, if you want to use ancient terms, otherwise it's hypersexuality

[qwerty2469]

A liberal feminist

[MasterKS]

Borning chicks.