A) Appearence wise: Smoking, drinking, tattoos, weird hair colours and weird hair cuts, poor hygiene.
B) Character wise: Abusive, sloth, cheapass, no manners, no intellect or cultivation, addictions like gambling or mobile phones, or pc gaming or sex, masochism, murderous/misanthrope destructive thoughts and tendencies, fear of commitment.
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being too stiff and inanimate and with no sense of humor is a red flag too. noone wants to marry a marble statue. also a man that is too easily scared, is not suitable to be a family protector. also when people have this big existential vod on their look and permanently look sad, i know trouble is ahead. good hearted people are light hearted and content by nature.
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also narcissistic behavior traits like gaslighting, never taking responsibility, unnatural self obsession, trying to isolate you from others, manipulation of sentiments and confidence etc. may no woman or man ever fall for such a person, but they unfortunately do all the time.
What are your greatest red flags?
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Too many red flags to list but what I can think of I would avoid
1. A guy who can't tolerate imperfections in other people or doesn't give you a second chance if you make a mistake 2. A guy who doesn't tell you what he is thinking and ghosts you when he is not happy 3. A guy who assumes your "dating" or "involved" simply because you are in the same room as each other and talking to each other when no emotional rapport has been established 4. A guy who chooses looks over personality - cause then you might cheated on in the long term 5. A guy with degrading sexual kinks or expresses degrading sexual desires towards woman 6. A guy who thinks its okay to have sex with people he has no plans to marry 7. A guy who judges people by their religion or culture or race or income or social status and not by their personality 8. A guy who evaluates you without first having a conversation with you to see whether he likes you or hates your personality 9. A guy who treats everybody exactly the same way 10. A guy who avoids you not because you are bad or evil but because he thinks you are weird.
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maybe thats why you are single in your thirties. just kidding most of these are logical.
POOR HYGIENE is a very important one. Damn, some people really need to have a shower. Also manipulative, agressive, abusing men... Or liars, I hate when someone is constantly lying and deceiving you in order to get sex or to impress you... Lol at the end you always find out the truth. Also men who mock and make fun of others all the time, like trying to feel better about themselves by doing that. I don't know, I just like funny, mature, inteligente, confident and light-hearted guys. Well, we all like that, don't we?
respect physical affection honesty attraction compassion communication patience good hygiene compatible sexually health conscious self control non violent
i stick to what i want and go from there. dont really think in terms of what i dont want. too nebulous.
Judgmental opinions, manipulative behavior, racism and sexism, strongly held religious beliefs, drug use, tendency to jump to conclusions, jealousy, holding grudges, only shallow conversations, selfishness.
Those are most of them. I personally really don't see how some of yours make sense but it's your life I suppose. I just hope you don't judge others who you aren't in a relationship with.
Appearance wise) constantly spitting, doesn’t shower or bathe often enough
Behavior: Doesn’t act nice or sweet in front of anyone but me or at all, insults other women and men to seem above them, can’t talk to me like a friend even if we’re not dating yet, talks about my body in crude ways or touches me inappropriately
A) appearance. If she dresses hella fancy she's high maintenance. And fuck that bad news. Princesses are inpleasable...
B) character wise. Shallow, size queens, materialistic, not financially educated, lack of ambition for career, insecure, jealousy and trust issues, non-adventurous (in and out of bed),
It is best not to hide your insecurities from your partner. Ur instead to talk about them together so you can work on. A solution that works for both of you.
Being selfish and criticizes everyone but herself. Bad credit Baby daddies, criminal-like ex-boyfriends, or just too many ex-boyfriends Screwed up parents/absent mom or dad.
All of this screams "I'm irresponsible and can't make good choices in life. I'm also selfish." If I date this girl then all of her past and current problems that she refuses to solve will fall on me like a 2-ton anvil, and I don't want any part of that.
Drug use, excessive drinking, bad spending habits, bad hygiene, no goals in life, no sense of humor, narcissism, being judgmental, no hobbies, no interest in learning or trying new things...
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