What's a controversial red flag you have?

[MikeyObrien]

Tell me your controversial red flags, even if it sounds shallow or messed up. For me, one of my most contriversial red flags is women who don't have a healthy father figure.

[Serkee]

It seems like everyone here is just listing things that they dislike or disagree with as red flags instead of warning signs of bad behavior.

For me my biggest red flag is the same as yours, no healthy father figure. Another one would be constantly showering someone with affection really early on in a relationship, because they're often just love bombing to hide their manipulation or other wrongdoing.

[JonCobretti]

1) Pro Abortion

2) Democrat

3) Liberal

4) Feminist

[DishLady]

I don't think that any of my red flags are particularly controversial. I don't like abusive guys, so my red flags have to do with signs that a guy will ultimately be abusive.

[Serkee]

What signs are those? I think that's more what he's asking. Would most guys disagree with any of the signs that make you suspect that a guy will be abusive?

[Nikki1989]

1. Homophobes

2. Narrow-minded right-wingers

3. Anti-abortion morons who think they have the right to tell women what they can do with their bodies.

[LaurenM1997]

1- people who are homophobic there’s no need for it!
2- abortions

3- Donald trump

[paledreams]

Bitchy and no hygiene 🪥