What's a red flag for you guys?
What's a red flag for you guys?
She prefers to text her friends and everyone else when we are out on a date.
I give her my undivided attention, she can do the same.
If she has kids, or a sitter that requires her attention, that is different. If she is set up to text a friend to let them know she is okay/safe, that is also fair.
If she is having a discussion with friends about how the date is going or what movie they plan to go see, not okay.
Disrespectful to his mother
Doesn't show much interest in the things going on in my life
Lack of empathy for others
Emotionally unavailable or lacking expression of emotions
Rude to people
Drinks heavily to the point it can be considered alcoholism
There are others but those are some major red flags off the top of my head.
If he is flirting with other girls. If he ignores me during my weakest phases of my life. If he throws me to other guys when he get bored of me and wanna enjoy with some other girl. Disloyalty. Cheating on me. Lying to me when he can tell the truth
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Overly controlling behavior
Overly controlling behavior is a common red flag in relationships. People that try to control your movements, decisions, or beliefs are more concerned about what they want than what is best for you. In a healthy relationship, there is compromise and understanding around differences.
Any sign of low self-esteem thing in women. Hooooooooly shit is that a red flag. Here's the thing about women's self-esteem; if she doesn't have good self-esteem, that means she's insecure, and she's going to be searching for constant validation wherever she can get it.
Low social skills are also a huge red flag.
Someone who always needs rescuing. I'm happy to help someone who needs it, but I wouldn't want to be with someone who always seemed to need it
- Leaving the toilet seat down.
- Watching Netflix/Disney/Paramount etc boxset episodes without me.
Rudeness to servers. I was taught to treat the janitor with as much respect as the CEO, so when I see someone being condescending it puts me off. I never have another date with a girl after she does that.
When she's too controlling , high maintenance and covered in tattoos.
A dick bigger than mine. Or smaller. A dick all together. If she looks and smells like rotten food rolled in a sewar.
Oh how to pick. There are so many. It'd be easier to list what aren't red flags.
Guys who talk bad about their exs
Hating on same gender in front of partener
friends with their ex
When she ghosts instead of just talking.
Someone who doesn’t masturbate
When she has a body count over 3 ..
Be well-groomed and clean
Lying bye
Drugs and disloyalty
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