What are your biggest red flags?

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MementoMori777 · Accepted Answer

A type of paranoia that makes me very observant, which I believe can save her at some point tho, I'm always looking around, and keep my eyes on my surroundings if I'm not busy with something, I can do small things that can piss someone off because even tho the chances are low, I believe they are higher than they actually are, for example if a guy is behind her that rubs me off wrong ( can just be an innocent person) I'd slow down to walk behind her or switch sides to be in between them, another example, I say paranoid shit, so that can also get annoying, I once said, "if someone starts shooting just run away and don't look back, I have a better chance of surviving the gun fight if I don't have to worry about your safety" I know this can annoy someone 😂

ARWINGx1 · Accepted Answer

1. Being controlled in any shape or form. (Even more so when it's clear that it was intentional)

2. And due to being autistic, at least in my case, clear communication's critical.
For example, my what-if/would-be partner would need to be careful with words & sentences that weren't meant to be taken literally.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have trust issues. I may like a person and be comfortable with them. But I always have an expectation that they will take advantage or do something to hurt me one day. I’m also hardly ever disappointed or surprised if they do happen to take advantage. So I try not to get super close with any one person, hence I don’t believe in having best friends. Closer friends than others sure, but I really don’t like the term “bestie” or “best friend” only because of my own personal experiences. My closest and oldest friend of over a decade never came to my house before because of my red flag. I’m not sure why I did this but I feel safer that way.
I tried to improve but every time I do, I’m shown why I have it in the first place.

KayDxx · Accepted Answer

These are random:
Not consistent as far as pursuing , No good relationship with his mother, Bad Hygeine, The type of people he hangs around, Talking Real bad about his ex, Constantly trying to bring up sex in most conversations, If he wants to go back to his place on the first date, If he ask to split the bill on the first date, If he randomly ask do I have any brothers or uncles, If he talks down about other random women in front of me calling them bitches, hoes, etc…. If he has social media but constantly posts thirst trap pictures, and A lot of Female Friends!!!….

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Lying and Theft and Control are my 3 biggest red flags.

Avicenna · Answer

Mental health issues, financial problems, being a single mom, substance abuse issues

Anonymous · Answer

High body count Lies (I mean more then the normal amount that women tell) Signs of mental and emotional instability  Lack of financial responsibility. Is she up to her eyeballs in debt. Does she routinely make poor financial choices

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Sometimes I feel like I am a walking red flag, I work on being less of that, then I realize I have some nice traits for which I deserve to be loved no less and forgive myself.

TrillXHippy · Answer

Red flag: if I ask her what’s wrong and she says nothing, if I’m ordering food and she says SHE’S not HUNGRY but she wants my food. I can’t think of any other red flags right now but there’s definitely more

Titanic1912 · Answer

Usage of tobacco and/or vaping, interested in witchcraft and/or astrology, and no relationship with Christ!

SolitarySolace · Answer

Feminism Leftism Lgbtq support  Misandrist  Satanist  Atheist  Bisexual  I have too many

slatyb · Answer

Disrespect of others or herself. That covers a lot.

e232bm · Answer

telling me you want to be with me but not being able to commit to me

Anonymous · Answer

Ignorance is THE biggest red flag, so I could never, ever date a trumper or at this point, most Republicans in the USA or any evangelical church member.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Cheating, lying, stealing, unprovoked rudeness

Anonymous · Answer

The biggest red flag

Anonymous · Answer

Sexism, racism, misogyny, bad manners.

Christoff92 · Answer

Stereotyping based on unrealistic views 😐

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Smoking  Only fans

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Stubborn 😅

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Lies.

Evan64 · Answer

Politically charged

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Rude to other people

boushrah · Answer

Being non-generous

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