What are your biggest red flags?

[Anonymous]

[MementoMori777]

A type of paranoia that makes me very observant, which I believe can save her at some point tho, I'm always looking around, and keep my eyes on my surroundings if I'm not busy with something, I can do small things that can piss someone off because even tho the chances are low, I believe they are higher than they actually are, for example if a guy is behind her that rubs me off wrong ( can just be an innocent person) I'd slow down to walk behind her or switch sides to be in between them, another example, I say paranoid shit, so that can also get annoying, I once said, "if someone starts shooting just run away and don't look back, I have a better chance of surviving the gun fight if I don't have to worry about your safety" I know this can annoy someone 😂

[ARWINGx1]

1. Being controlled in any shape or form. (Even more so when it's clear that it was intentional)

2. And due to being autistic, at least in my case, clear communication's critical.
For example, my what-if/would-be partner would need to be careful with words & sentences that weren't meant to be taken literally.

[Anonymous]

I have trust issues. I may like a person and be comfortable with them. But I always have an expectation that they will take advantage or do something to hurt me one day. I’m also hardly ever disappointed or surprised if they do happen to take advantage. So I try not to get super close with any one person, hence I don’t believe in having best friends. Closer friends than others sure, but I really don’t like the term “bestie” or “best friend” only because of my own personal experiences. My closest and oldest friend of over a decade never came to my house before because of my red flag. I’m not sure why I did this but I feel safer that way.
I tried to improve but every time I do, I’m shown why I have it in the first place.

[mommymommymommy]

Only way to get over a fear, is to face it.

Afraid of bugs? Get a bug

[Opinion Owner]

I agree with you and I also believe it. However it seems as tho I’m so unlucky with relationships lol. I’ve always been lied too, but the most recent guy took the prize. He had an entire second life with a woman, who is my friend’s mom! So I’m taking a break from people for now 😂

[mommymommymommy]

Always remember, if it's too good to be true, IT MOST LIKELY isn't TRUE

[KayDxx]

These are random:
Not consistent as far as pursuing , No good relationship with his mother, Bad Hygeine, The type of people he hangs around, Talking Real bad about his ex, Constantly trying to bring up sex in most conversations, If he wants to go back to his place on the first date, If he ask to split the bill on the first date, If he randomly ask do I have any brothers or uncles, If he talks down about other random women in front of me calling them bitches, hoes, etc…. If he has social media but constantly posts thirst trap pictures, and A lot of Female Friends!!!….

[jennifer_bloom]

Lying and Theft and Control are my 3 biggest red flags.

[Avicenna]

Mental health issues, financial problems, being a single mom, substance abuse issues

[Anonymous]

• High body count
• Lies (I mean more then the normal amount that women tell)
• Signs of mental and emotional instability
• Lack of financial responsibility. Is she up to her eyeballs in debt. Does she routinely make poor financial choices

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Sometimes I feel like I am a walking red flag, I work on being less of that, then I realize I have some nice traits for which I deserve to be loved no less and forgive myself.

[TrillXHippy]

Red flag: if I ask her what’s wrong and she says nothing, if I’m ordering food and she says SHE’S not HUNGRY but she wants my food. I can’t think of any other red flags right now but there’s definitely more

[Titanic1912]

Usage of tobacco and/or vaping, interested in witchcraft and/or astrology, and no relationship with Christ!

[SolitarySolace]

Feminism
Leftism
Lgbtq support
Misandrist
Satanist
Atheist
Bisexual
I have too many

[slatyb]

Disrespect of others or herself. That covers a lot.

[e232bm]

telling me you want to be with me but not being able to commit to me

[Anonymous]

Ignorance is THE biggest red flag, so I could never, ever date a trumper or at this point, most Republicans in the USA or any evangelical church member.

[LiamJHayden]

Cheating, lying, stealing, unprovoked rudeness

[Anonymous]

The biggest red flag

[Christoff92]

Stereotyping based on unrealistic views 😐

[Anonymous]

Sexism, racism, misogyny, bad manners.

[Jmmmfi4]

Smoking

Only fans

[UniquelyBasic]

Stubborn 😅

[itsalyssaagain]

Lies.

[sirderpsalot123]

Rude to other people

[Evan64]

Politically charged

[boushrah]

Being non-generous