What are your personal red flags 🚩 of yourself?

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Sameone · Accepted Answer

When i sleep i turnoff my phone 😅 If i was in bad mood she have to be in bad mood too I don't talk a lot about myself (in firsts dates) i just I listen  If you was beautiful i will tell but if you was ugly i will tell you too   very jealous

JHAYES317 · Accepted Answer

I’m pretty insecure about my body. I also have never been in a relationship (which I don’t consider to be a red flag but some might)

Phoenix98 · Answer

1# I'm kind of an asshole among other things

so outside of my circle of people I know can handle how I talk towards them and have extremely thick skin I have to be very careful of how I talk and what I say because I've made people cry because of things I said that to me weren't a big deal but apparently were to them it just broke em, also made people speechless. And things I say can be greatly misunderstood if you don't know me or how I am so that's a red flag if I happen to slip up.

2# I'm quite stubborn

3# I'm not going to change the fundamental cores of who I am as a person so if you don't like who I am as a individual don't expect that to change.

4# I have a very unfiltered mind/mouth I say my genuine thoughts and feelings towards things and what's on my mind with no regard to how it's going to make anyone around me feel because at this point in my life I don't care (except for my partners )

5# I'm sassy and a smart ass or cheeky or so I've been told

6# I can be very sarcastic

7# I smoke pipe tobacco and cigars which I know is a red flag for some people.

8# I'm white and I'm a conservative both of which I know are red flags for some people

That's really about it I think.

JacobJordan · Answer

I am very blunt, I don't put up with bullshit, drama, or accusations at all. I don't do games. If you want to play games fuck off I have better shit to do than have some dumb bitch give me loyalty tests, or trust tests or any other stupid shit women come up with. I will not remotely realize a woman is flirting with me so if you are the type to get mad that your partner let's women flirt with them I am not letting her I don't even realize she is. As a result I don't do jealousy. You get jealous you get replaced immediately.

dragoblack · Answer

I have a tendency to ramble on about things I'm interested in. I don't really have any goals or aspirations in life aside from just enjoying it. I don't plan on "living the American dream". i tend to rant when i get annoyed. I don't have a functioning vehicle, so i bicycle everywhere. i hermit at home 90% of the time, because it's more affordable. I hate spending a lot of money. My body is junk. i can't drive a regular vehicle. I'm socially awkward. Im not that funny. Im bad at wording things. I dont complement often. i come across as cynical, when my intent is kind and supportive. I have a good amoynt of emotional and mental walls.

Lionman95 · Answer

I keep people at distance which leads to me knowing a lot about them while they know nothing about me.

I have a hard time breaking addictive cycles like staying up late for no real reason. I had problems with porn for a long time.

I´m a very insecure guy, I don´t have much self confidence.

AaronKrieger · Answer

- I like to be in control.

- Sometimes care too much about being right when it's not necessary.

- Indecisiveness, since I do not want to make mistakes.

- Anger issues (I have it controlled for the most part).

- I lack the emotional maturity to have vulnerable conversations in-person and remain stable.

- Keeping others at a distance.

NathanDavis · Answer

I can be stubborn... for sure

electromagnetic · Answer

I have ocd. Not compulsive BUT everything in my home, has a home. Something about chaos especially in my house really puts me over the edge.

Rangers · Answer

Mine is that I drink a LOT!

I'm talking one full liter of 80 proof alcohol every day.

Although I'm taking steps in the right direction, as now I consume 500ml of 80 proof alcohol per day, and I intent to reduce further gradually, so I'm able to stay off of it

sage2021 · Answer

Right now I am into watching politics on TV. If you believe different and are with the opposition, then bah bye!

Billlewis · Answer

I'm so submissive and eager to please that I think it can definitely be a turnoff for a lot of women.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

1. Low self esteem 2. Being moody (can change very quickly) 3. Being shy (hate parties) 4. If I love someone, I might get too passionate

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

Rude chicks or chicks with an attitude. Chicks who are uptight and chicks who are careless. I have so many flags to dodge lol 😔😆

DarkWinterNights · Answer

I have trouble trusting people and I tend to self sabotage. I also value my alone time and I’ve never had a long term relationship.

HawkPerception · Answer

Mine are: Can't drive Unemployed/figuring it out Lives with mom Low self-esteem

Nikki1989 · Answer

I can't be controlled. Been there, done that.

SillyMari · Answer

I trust people way to easily.. To in my head at times.. Mostly silent mute type of girl.

robhazelnut · Answer

If I'm not being helpful to anybody at all, including a single blade of grass or an ant, then I'd be inclined to have this body sleep for 10 trillion years. Such is when joy from within is not on.

genericname85 · Answer

the only thing i guess someone could consider as "red flag" would be that i'm single for a very long time.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

Controlling (sometimes), upfront/plainly honest (can come off rude), stubborn and heavily opinionated

simptopia · Answer

I go from being the most self-confident and motivated to the most shy anxious overthinker constantly in a cycle

JayBones2469 · Answer

I'm a sociopath and a serial killer. My sweat oldest daughter is starting to show the signs of inheritance. I do t know if I'm upset or proud. I wanted better for her but what is better then being an unbothered apex predator? Maybe sweetness lime her mother and sisters. She may look like her mother but this one is all mine.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I can be a drama queen

tierrlamé · Answer

Am a bit overprotective and usually talk in sarcasm in real life

OtterMan68 · Answer

I'm a loner. My house is somewhat messy I can be aloof I can be pedantic

HighValue · Answer

I have too many good qualities so it is nearly impossible for someone to be nearly as good of a potential partner as I am.

myloveforuisinfinte · Answer

Can't express emotions

7Phoenix7 · Answer

Hard for me to trust people.

Confused6333 · Answer

I’m a stage five clinger! Where are we going, what are we doing? Can I come? 😂

Pohjolan · Answer

Red? Its not like dating me would put a gal in any danger so I wouldn't call any of my traits a  red  flag.

Hardshell1234 · Answer

I fall for people way too easy.

Paris13 · Answer

lol No TRust. xx

dolemite58 · Answer

Is being an impeccable dresser a red flag? 🤔

LostandFound__x · Answer

Inconsistency. Lies. Not being clear.

msc545 · Answer

I can be sarcastic and irritable.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I’m lazy and I might be a bit boring

YevBor · Answer

Very VERY boring and pedantic.

soe11 · Answer

My dignity.

Lottydotty · Answer

Too sexy

Isabella1819 · Answer

to lie l think

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Seriously?

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