Should I ignore the red flags?

[Anonymous]

Hi so I like this girl and I would message her and most of the time she leaves me on read or delivered but she talks to me in person but little world's like well done but I noticed she also winked at me the last time I saw her.

I am really awkward socially so I would be difficult to start a convo with anyone. Should I ignore the red flags of her not responding to my texts, I tried to add her on social media but she only added me back on tiktok

[In_Trance]

No you shouldn't

[oh_k789]

Are you asking about a girl-on-girl infatuation?

[Asker]

Yes I'm asking about a girl-on-girl infatuation

[oh_k789]

Do you know (not "think" but "know") if she has caught the fact that you like her?

[oh_k789]

Because, you see, if she knows, or doesn't know, you like her, the meaning of her attitude changes.

[Asker]

Well I don't know she is nice to me in person but dosen't respond to my texts

[oh_k789]

Are you in the same school, or what?

[Asker]

No we both go to the same football team

[oh_k789]

There are two chances. She just wants to be social, without anything else on her mind. She could like you in a more-than-friendly way, but it's in the process of assessing what you are like.

[JuanVelasco6]

Being a lesbian in and of itself is a bad sign.

[Asker]

What do you mean?