Polls: Dating

When I say "at the same time," I am not asking about going out with two different girls next Friday at 8 pm. I don't think many people would ever agree to such a thing. I am talking about going out with Sandy on Friday night and going out with Valerie on Saturday night, then Sandy maybe next Thursday, and Valerie the following Saturday.

I have done this three times in my lifetime. The first time, during my promiscuous younger years, I had a sexual relationship with two girls at the same time. That only lasted about three or four weeks, as I felt guilty about it. The second and third time, there were no sexual relationships when I was dating two ladies at the same time, and I quickly (within 3-4 weeks) chose one to pursue and said goodbye to the other.

Once you have decided to date a partner exclusively, how often do you prefer to date them? My guess is that most people will say once per week, gradually increasing. If you answer is different than that, can you give some explanation in a comment?

Not this other made up nonsense in the USA. I barely know a single person here in the UK that uses these terms when describing different types of guys.

This is my first poll about this lol

I see a lot of comments from guys saying, have a big wallet etc…

It’s not to say women don’t care about love too

If you meet someone online , chat through texts, it turns out to be nice chat... then exchange pics and they seem fine in pictures...

Then you finally decide to meet in person.

In person he/she seems very average looking... very average face and skin

They're just photogenic... means he/she looks better in pics compared to real life

So how would you feel, think about him/her... and would you continue to talk to them the same way and even take things ahead?

If you want to offer an explanation to you answer that is much appreciated.

Women mostly talk about their men to their friends when something bad has happened. Which will make the friend think he’s a bad guy and get in to her head.

Female friends break relationships.

You shouldn’t be sharing personal things in a relationship to friends

I am 25. My age is messed up.
I messaged a pretty girl in my uni and hit on her in the DM. Telling her I’ve seen her and she’s pretty etc…
She was responding in short messages then just ghosted me.

Anyway 1.5months later, I saw her and she was looking at me as if she’s curious who I am. She’s also one of the first people to view my insta stories. I dunno

I’m not one for wasting time. I kinda want to know/move on.

For a tinder match, how many dates you want to wait until you decide for sex (or any sort of intimacy)?

I feel like I can’t approach a girl without the possibility of making her feel uncomfortable girls are also obnoxious and rude

there's no safe place to go up to a girl and hit on her without being creepy/weird.