Polls: Dating

I’ve been with my girlfriend for 2 years and our plan is to get married by December.
My girlfriend is dead set against us having kids. She doesn’t want kids but wants me to be a second dad to her friend’s kids. She’s even leaving her will to her friend’s kids.

I’ve never fancied the idea of kids. I don’t even like kids, accept recently I’ve been thinking it would be cool to see a mini me. What’s even worse is she’s pregnant right now and has an abortion appointment booked.

I’m ok with her not wanting kids, her body her choice. But I don’t wanna be responsible for someone else’s kids either. I never wanted to date a woman with kids, but I kinda think this is worse than dating a single mom.

So please tell me. Am I selfish? Or is she?

I’m thinking about doing this because I don’t want to interrupt and ruin her workout. Plus, I’m too nervous to ask her out for lunch.

I always avoid it. I always look at them and think, I’m sure they suck as a person and think too highly of themselves.

Unfortunately it’s only the unattractive girls that are amazing people.

What skin colour do you find most attractive especially on the opposite gender?

I saw 3 men at the shoe store today being escorted around the building by their girlfriend like they were with their moms. They all had the faces of... Nerds. But the girls weren't particularly ugly themselves

Imagine you’re single

I’ve tried in university and I tried the dating apps. Complete fail

My life is in order, I love the gym, I’m a hard worker and high up in the career. I’m also tall and good looking (not ugly for sure).

I’m also a really nice guy, I’m a good listener, humble and very loyal. Funny too

Being in an ethnic minority also it makes it hard.

There’s nothing more I can do. I have to give up. I remember it was always the guys that weren’t that great that used to get girls. It’s the brutal reality. Women don’t pick the good guys it’s not exciting. I mean I’ve seen a homeless man with a girlfriend. Wtf.

I am 31 and still single. I’ve never had a girlfriend.
I’m not ugly and I earn good money. Go gym, humble and friendly person.

The girls that really liked me I didn’t find attractive at all. I don’t have unrealistic expectations.

I keep thinking I have to accept singleness. As if God has picked this life for me.
I tried some online sites and yeah…. terrible. No replies
I mean if girls don’t want me, then I don’t want them as well. I’m not going to simp

Inspired by a recent question... would you be skilled enough to hang with a guy socially including online and give useful feedback so they can improve themselves to have success with women?

This is a professional, paid role, and you are only giving advice and guidance.

This question is fmainly or guys who only want a virgin for a long-term relationship, but any guy can answer...

Consider this situation...

A 20-something girl is a virgin on her wedding night. Tragically, a few months later, her husband dies in a car crash, making her a widow,

Would you date this widow, knowing that she is not a virgin?

Please select one of the three choices in the poll below.