Girls, how would you feel, if a guy approached you at the gym and have you a note?

[TheSpider2099]

I’m thinking about doing this because I don’t want to interrupt and ruin her workout. Plus, I’m too nervous to ask her out for lunch.

Annoyed

Flattered

[Jessica405]

Annoyed. I certainly do not want to be asked by a note. If fact, I do not like cold approaches anyway. I would need to know a guy somewhat before I would accept.

However, I did get with my partner in a direct approach, but that is a long story, been told on GAG before.

[dustybiker2]

A note might work, depend how it's done. If you are confident and sly maybe add a smile it could work. But if nervous it won't play to your favor. Best wait to catch her on the way out give a brief try.

[Abbycado]

A note? That’s so early high school or even more middle school. Just talk to her when she is done working out.

[TheSpider2099]

Gotcha, will do! I’ll be nervous though.

[Abbycado]

I know. Not easy approaching but note is weird.

[TheSpider2099]

Okay, thanks for your perspective on my situation. Do you think it would be okay to ask for her phone number, when I first introduce myself to her and have a conversation with her.

[Abbycado]

See how the convo goes first. Feel it out.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Can you at least wait until she's done workout and walking out?

[TheSpider2099]

Yes, I can do that.

[EmmaMary]

@TheSpider2099

I would have much more respect for a guy who has a pair of testicles (balls) and can use his tongue in actually talking to me.

[AmyHew1tt]

That's a pretty decent, nonobtrusive way to approach, out of all of them. As long as you wait for her to be done her set.

[Dbtr99]

Depends on the guy.

[TheSpider2099]

Is it always about looks?

[Dbtr99]

Looks or age

[Lara_Croft]

I think that'd be adorable