This question is fmainly or guys who only want a virgin for a long-term relationship, but any guy can answer...
Consider this situation...
A 20-something girl is a virgin on her wedding night. Tragically, a few months later, her husband dies in a car crash, making her a widow,
Would you date this widow, knowing that she is not a virgin?
Please select one of the three choices in the poll below.
Done it before. But at my age the odds of that are pretty high.
I knew her husband. Maybe even called him a friend. I was there with her when the paramedics were giving him CPR and hitting him with the paddles. I was there when they came out and said, "We've done everything we can. I'm sorry for your loss."
Six months later I asked her about going for a burger and drinks. She needed to move on and get out of the house. Six months isn't long for someone who was married for 20 years. But she was the type who couldn't be alone. She needed to be dragged out of the house.
A virgin? Lol. I think she was a ho in her younger days. But even when I was young, none of that stuff mattered.
Of course I want a virgin. But what's the likelihood of that at this age, she should to. I don't know why women who've had sex make such a big deal out of this. My guess is it's the women that have had MANY partners that don't like "feeling judged" that are the ones making all the noise. For my PREFERENCE I never said a woman who is NOT a virgin is necessarily a deal breaker. And of course a widow didn't choose to be a widow , unless she killed him of course😆. So barring that, her not being a virgin in that case is irrelevant. Women who've had sex, and those who've had a lot of partners need to understand it's not really about all the partners they've had. It's the why to men. Rather then complaining make better choices. If you don't want to do that, expect to get judged. This REALITY is not changing regardless of how you feel about it.
In this age and time, one should only want a virgin, if they themselves are one! Otherwise, to me its morally wrong to wanting someone else to be a virgin, when your not. Where is the equality?
I would hell yeah date a widow despite her sexual activity. Are you dating her due to your interest in her and her personality or because of her sexual experiences?
Sure. I dated a divorced woman for three years. We never called it "dating" I made it clear that we were just friends with benefits. She was very prim and proper, and it took months for me to get her in the sack. When it happened, it was her idea. Wow! Never judge a book by its cover.
I would put store on her being a relationship oriented girl and in this short bio she clearly is. So I would date her if I was looking for a relationship and be patient.
If I am just after sex than it is a good thing the girl has a high body count as i will get sex on the first date.
I wouldn't date a widow because she would still be emotionally bonded to her ex and in the after life she would have to choose and have divided loyalties. Someone would be betrayed in the after life because they didn't willingly end the relationship due to incompatibility.
I voted yes. The Bible does not condemn dating and marrying a widow. The Bible condemns divorce and cheating. If her previous husband died (as long as she did not play a role), then it is fine.
Same number as me or less. I am now married and I have been with 1 person. So 1 or 0
As long as she didn't cut his brake lines I don't see a problem
I can't do it. I had a bad one, that was super hot, but I couldn't even put her on my roster because she was a widow
I've made plenty of widows but no, I'd never date one. I could never date anyone that didn't have the respect to end themselves when their love expired
Everyone has a past. It is the future that counts.
