Polls: Dating

I dated this girl from a small ethnic community of people I come from. She looks so unique and is the prettiest girl I’ve ever seen she has green eyes (pretty damn rare). Stunning in my eyes. I look at insta models and am like they can’t compare!

She went from being obsessed with me to getting overwhelmed and dropping me like a hot potato.

I met her parents she met mine, all in 3.5 months. We stayed overnight with each other, talked for hours a day, had s*x with each other once which was a disaster as it was so awkward and I didn’t get to f her good.

I was shocked she let me go as I am exceptional too and I was good to her but there were some lessons I had to learn. I do think she was a bit unstable inside. We also got on like a house on fire and I felt a connection to her.

I don’t know if I can do better! She also came out of nowhere

28, really pretty, 5’4.

She is a doctor, also looking for a doctor that is well to do and 27-32. She even said she is looking for a tiny demographic of guys.

Wants the guy to have a more provider mentality.

Her brother is divorced.

She has been in a few relationships. She likes to be really independent, not good with dealing with relationship stress. Occasionally goes on solo trips abroad. Has needed therapy before.

Because of her age and personality traits do you think she will end up single? I try to tell her to just be realistic and give a guy a chance

I once met a girl on the subway. We had never seen each other before, but she kept looking at me for a few seconds, so I smiled, started a conversation right away, and got her number.

I mean, has anything like this ever happened to you while walking on the street, waiting in line at a store, sitting in a park, etc?

The guy is from a really rich family and only recently started making a lot of money.

The first few dates the the guy paid. Then 50/50 on everything. Is there anything wrong with that?

He would spend hours on the phone everyday and drive to see her a lot straight after work.

Treated her well, caring, emotionally available. Even when broke up he did not insult her. Did gift her but not expensive things.

Girl felt the guy should have contributed more monetarily to make her feel special.

Is it reasonable to interpret that as a soft invitation for intimacy/flirting?

• She was kinda putting them up and it would have been pretty easy to just reach for them
• She just got them done
• She came that night to "play chess" on our phones which was not brought up once when she came here
• Pretty sure she's been trying to find a new guy to get away from her low effort ex
• I myself am not better than that guy 😂 in superficial terms 🤷🏼‍♂️
• This last one is here because I like bullit points

What do you guys think?

You literally see the best looking, richest and most successful men out there get cheated on and lose their wife. There’s just no way to keep a woman?

No man can get a woman that just like belongs to him only?

Are there many women out there that are more selfless. Being selfless is probably the best quality a girl can have in my view for a marriage to work. Less likely to fold under stress.

When you look at social media content it just programs women to prioritise only themselves over everyone. I see it a lot in women too, slight pressure then they break up.

Or no shaved

Apparently this is a thing in dating now

It is mostly about money and status if you want to attract a really beautiful modern girl.

They are used to receiving attention so the only way they can pick the best man is through who provides the best lifestyle?

I often hear this. Like women come to you only once you’ve established yourself and have money and the means to own a house is that true.

Imagine dating a guy from a really rich family and he earns double what you earn, making good money.

Let’s say he is cautious he pays for the first dates then requests 50/50. So you set up a joint account and put equal money in. He also gets you modest, not like designer stuff.

The reasons are due to concerns of being used, finding a gold digger, and being fair. Also concerns of like what if the girl leaves you and you’ve made this financial commitment to pay for the majority.