It seems like there are a lot of people saying they haven't been in a relationship past 30, do you think it's by choice the majority of the time?

[Anonymous]

Yes everyone could have had someone by that point

Technically yes it likely is unwillingness to take rejection

Nope its a high probability that they can't keep a job, are really awkward, annoying, bad at conversation, not smart, something like that

Nope its hard to date

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[Anonymous]

Yes and no. Guys have a very narrow window. With most women it's just making the decision to date. But a guy is relegated to the women who will consider him. And that is BEFORE he knows her turn ons and turn offs. And all of this is predicated upon her even wanting to date. Because a majority of women just want him to make a play for her. Call it practice, call it entertainment for her. Call it whatever you want to. But the fact remains most women do not want to date any man. And a man cannot know that from the outset. So a guy who actively tries to date will find himself repeatedlyvrejected and may quit altogether before he even talks to a woman who was even willing to consider him.

So you see why i say "yes and no". It all hinges on who he asks for him to have even had a shot. And that is a absolute crap shoot.

[tiredpanda]

I think it depends on the person. For some it's a conscious choice, while others simply haven't met someone they genuinely connect with. For others, it's probably a combination of circumstances and personal choices...

[Nikki1989]

That would be extremely rare unless everyone you know is a total loser. Everyone I grew up with was dating by the time they were 14. Most were married by their early 20s.

[Anonymous]

I hear the opposite, everyone is saying they're older than 30 and never been in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know why they would say that