Polls: Dating

How many women would put their man as the biggest thing they value? Over their career and other things. Do you think many or very few?

Like men are judged on are we rich, are we funny/confident, are we tall, are we in shape, are we good looking, are we well known and respected, are we ambitious, are we experienced with women, do we have a big package.

Social media changed the game. But we are judged 100X more harsher than women.

How can any guy be confident? In a world where there’s always more and more. No man can be good enough unless you’re drake.

All those attribute I mentioned I do well for myself and it’s just not enough.

With Instagram now as it is. If you’re a really hot girl you’ve got 5-100k followers, you’re now competing with celebrities, because a famous guy will want to use her for a fun time and now that girl will think that is her new minimum acceptance.

Look at how many women worship male celebrities like drake, Chris brown and put them all on their stories. Women only truly desire the best men on the planet.
The best guy is no longer just tall, handsome and rich.

I think so.

Like I get people shocked all the time that I’m single. It is partly through choice but also a lot of the time I will match with loads of girls and they won’t respond, ghost….. they still looking for more when I already check every box. Like I can’t believe my fortunes in life. Yet still, not enough.

But also I never get to meet new girls in person. I am not complaining at all - I am just highlighting.

It’s easy if you have nil standards as a guy and undersell yourself.

My lady and I broke up a few weeks ago, and this weekend is a formal dinner gathering for neurologists and psychiatrists in my city, sponsored by the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology. I didn’t want to go alone, though I very well could have, so I invited someone who’s taken but she has agreed to come with me.

She won’t be taken long because I can easily pull her away from him. I have much more to her taste than he does. Haha.

So I’m just curious what the ladies on here think.

If you were taken and a young doctor asked you to this kind of formal high-status event, would you go?

Do women want to have been with multiple men. Like in bed and full on dating.

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we’ve talked a decent amount and I’ve seen her on video, but if I’m going to schlep into a city to go see her, I feel like I should have her regular phone number first and not her Google voice number

Lately the "People You May Know" has been way to spot on with past flames... To some degree there is no way they could know we hooked up unless Facebook matched us by location on the hook ups. We are mainly talking one night stands.

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This woman knows I’m interested (I directly said so at one point) but other then that I’ve kept my communication light, funny and non-sexual.

Also I’ve been careful to not to be overly available either. Only messaged her once ever couple days. I’ve been doing most of the initial texting but she was engaging with me up until recently.

But she just texted me “can I be honest about something”. I haven’t responded yet. I’m going to wait to tomorrow morning (she took a full day to respond to my last message). I’m also about 99.99% sure whatever comes next isn’t going to be good.

I am guessing she’s going to say either she’s either not interested in dating and/or she’s dating someone else now. She might give me some line of bs that “she’s got too much going on right now to date someone” (anyone makes time if they are interested).

And then she is going to say “can we just be friends?” and I am ready to respond with “hey it was nice to meet you and you seem like a wonderful lady. I wish you the best of luck”. Then delete her number.

Is age just a number?

19 is an adult or no that is too young?

I never thought about asking out a girl that young at my age but what if she has the confidence to ask me out? What happens then? This is literally a hypothetical situation but I can see this happenning.