If you could talk to your partner someone's exes about them early on in your relationship, would you and how much would their feedback matter to you?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yeah would talk to them, and it would matter a lot

Yeah would talk to them, but as long as multiple don't say terrible things, it's not the end of the world

Nah, don't care what they have to say at all, because that's in the past

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I could be curious but mostly not.

That would give an embarrassing situation. On top of confusing information, because if prior breakups were not amicable, then I'd expect this feedback to be a can of one-sided takes. All things considered, this doesn't look great to talk to them.

No, it doesn't worth it, I certainly need information about her, and I will get it from her, from what she says, and what she doesn't say.

[NathanDavis]

I wouldn't even consider that...

the worst thing you can do about getting to actually and really know someone... would be, to go to SOMEONE ELSE and not the one you want to get to know

[Nikki1989]

Nah, their past is none of my business.

[queenofcardio]

I wouldn't bother.

[Zionne]

nah, but i'll listen and learn

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t care to talk to exes.