Would it be better for me to wait until I'm 118 pounds to start dating?

[Anonymous]

I am on the heavy side right now, but making a lot of effort in changing that. So far down 14lbs in less than a week. Got a long way to go before I hit 118 though. Maybe by next summer I will be there.

Should I wait a whole year and some months to date?

The guys that I want don't seem to go for girls like me. But I have been with a guy who liked me despite my size. But I know that he's the exception. Most guys wouldn't go for someone extremely overweight or rather obese. And rightfully so. I wouldn't want to date me if I was a guy.

I'm disgusting.

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

You want me someone who wants you at your best and worst. If a guy really likes you, he won't care about your extra weight. He might even support you still want to lose it.

[bowenw]

I suggest you get out and meet guys now. It will be a good way to see which guys only care about appearance, so you can cross them off your list forever.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊
Best of luck to you. Please feel free to DM if you wish.

[Anonymous]

118 pounds could be kind of small depending on your height. But no I wouldn't wait until you're 118 pounds. But if you're not comfortable with yourself right now, then definitely wait until you become more comfortable with how you look.

[PinkSchmetterling]

Nah, there’s never a bad time to put yourself out there. You never know what will happen

[queenofcardio]

The scale is not more important than what’s in your heart and who you are as a person.

[exitseven]

okay- just because you are overweight you are not disgusting. And if you are disgusting losing some weight will not help/.
Go out an meet people.

[Nikki1989]

Why wait at all? Life is short; get on it.

[Anonymous]

14 lbs. In a week? What are you doing the all meth diet?😆

[Asker]

Just less than 800 cals a day plus 30 mins of exercise.

[Opinion Owner]

Only 800 calories? I think the meth diet might actually be healthier. I don't know where you find the energy to exercise on only 800 calories. You know just to maintain your weight you need 10 calories per lb. of weight. So even if you were at 118 you should be consuming at least 1200 calories. And that's if you were do nothing! Just breathing each day you'd burn 1200 calories at that weight. I know you want to lose weight and i commend you drive and fortitude. But please eat a little more. You are starving yourself and in the long run it'll work against you.

[Opinion Owner]

You are doing the right thing by 30 minutes of aerobic activity though each day. Good job there!👍💯