Is cutting off more fat a good idea before taking dating or love seriously?

Question

Long story short, I'm 31 and never been in a relationship, besides a few first dates many years ago. I've been obese most of my 20s and this affected how I feel about myself. A big reason for low self-esteem was being disrespected and ignored due to my poor looks. I've taken action since the start of 2023 and discovering content like Wheat Waffles and looking at online dating experiments.

2 years later, I definitely see progress but still lacking jawline visibility, despite seeing cheekbone prominence: https://imgur.com/a/2HyprSF

When I visited the dentist a year ago, he recommended jaw surgery because I still have a minor overbite after braces. I've been studying looksmaxxing content for a while and have seen models like Jordan Barrett with a top-tier jaw despite being recessed like myself.

That's why I'm considering going raw carnivore with steak and eggs for one month and walking 20,000 steps a day before I start working since I was in the job market and it's likely one of the interviews I had last week may lead to an offer. So I want to get that 12% boyfriend locked in.

Updates

10 mo

Jordan Barrett's (who is a 9/10) chin where the test passes through his lower lip, so it's a tad back https://imgur.com/a/DHdfbfy

The dude is INSANELY lean.

Finchie40 · Answer

Cut off weight for yourself , don’t do it to appease women , just be yourself and and learn to be confident of yourself , Most girls’ are attracted to a guys’ personality and confidence and the way he presents himself as a person , not how skinny he is or Muscular he is. Females’ do not look at males’ like

Males’ look at females’ I always been a broad guy , my Dad and Grandfather were broad big boned guys’ that I inherited when I was born , I use to think girls’ would’ n’t like me because I was broad and big boned , to some people I was chubby and to others’ I was not chubby at all , so I was always in the middle. But what helped me was by just accepting myself for who I was , when I started doing that and living my life as positive as I could , Girls’ were coming on to me , I didn’t really have to do anything , , when beautiful girls’ were hitting on me , I use to think are they blind? Like what do they like about me? To come to find out it was my personality and my lack of shyness and confidence. And some of My physical traits as well that turned her on , so once I started receiving a lot of attention from girls’It made
Me feel better about myself , so for
Myself I started exercising like crazy , and I only exercised for myself. , considering I lwas still receiving attention from girls’ and not exercising not appease girls’ like most guys and girls’ do when they go to the gym , not all but most do , they just won’t admit it. Some of my girlfriends’ said I looked hotter when I put on more muscle and got more lean , but they said they liked me better when I wasn’t that muscular and said I was fine the way I was before , so I eventually cut back on exercising and took their advice and just maintained myself and realized i don’t have to exercise and be fit to get girls’ interested in me whatsoever, just be myself. what a lot of girls’ like about me is the fact that I am not a very judgmental person whatsoever, zGirls’ love that I can just talk to anyone and don’t judge anyone based off how they look. I am outgoing and friendly with anyone that is friendly with me ,
I don’t care if they had 3 heads , I would still be nice to them tif they are nice to me. Girls’ love that I can get a party started with a crowd full of quiet people that are to nervous to open their mouths. It’s just who I am and it’s gotten me laid a lot of times lol

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

You can go all this level of Mengelesque eugenic stuff, and yet I saw positively hideous men bagging a different girl per evening.

Anonymous · Answer

another harsh reminder

Is cutting off more fat a good idea before taking dating or love seriously?

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