Do you require some amount of challenge in order to be attracted to someone?

[Still-alive]

Basically when they make it seem too easy for you to date or 'get' are you the type to be disinterested? You require some amount of challenge for you to want them or be attracted?

For instance in these ways you might seem more of a challenge:

1. Not being CONSTANTLY available

2. Not Being overly affectionate verbally and physically too quickly

3. Having real opinions and not agreeing with everything you say

Stuff like that

It's true, i require some amount of challenge for me to be attracted

No i don't need it to be challenging to be attracted

It depends (explain)

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Uhhhh instead let's discuss what a challenge is or isn't...

Not being CONSTANTLY available = That isn't challenging to me, I expect any girl to be busy.

Not Being overly affectionate verbally and physically too quickly = That isn't challenging to me, I expect any girl to be reserved.

Having real opinions and not agreeing with everything you say = That isn't challenging to me, I expect any girl to be... Normal lol.

[MrChinaski]

I'm with you on 1 and 3.

2 is frigidity. Life is too short.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Ey, chinnie, I said I expect, meaning I'm ready for the default behaviour. I won't be turned off if things get quicker than on average. But I will need more time dedicated to standing back, when bodies are hastier than my normal lol

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

So in fact, I'm going to be challenged by lust introduced too quickly.

You found a challenge that talks to me, bravo !

[Xawyx-2]

Oh no, I don't like challenges, it's way too difficult for me anyway.

- Constantly available is not obligatory.

- I prefer her to be affectionate verbally and physically - as quickly as possible.

- I actually prefer dominant girls, so I'd have to agree with what she says ;)

[Xawyx-2]

Thanks for the MHO

[Apulu_backagain]

I don't think the given points are something one does to be a challenge for others. Anyone with a fulfilling life would obviously prioritize themself over someone who might not even stay forever with them.

[queenofcardio]

I'm easily attracted to people but I also can get quickly turned off depending on the situation.

The problem is keeping me interested.

[Still-alive]

hmmmm... that 2nd part has me curious. :P

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

You don't need curiosity, man, you just need to run... Just don't run in the opposite direction.

[LiamJHayden]

Not attracted to initially, but if we become a couple she has to be strong enough to call me on my errors, stupidity, and BS.

[purplepoppy]

Be chaste.
But easily caught.

[MrChinaski]

Speak softly and carry an erect stick?