How likely are you to approach a person you are attracted to?

[estoydorado1]

Explain why you would or wouldn't approach the person you want.

1) I could never!

2) I might if they were already showing interest

3) Meh, depends

4) Maybe on a good day

5) Of course, its a numbers game!

[TonyV]

Probably wouldn't, most likely get rejected cause I'm not attractive, buuuut I got to remember they just people too, could work, and if they are nasty towards me that says more about them than me so I won't take anything personal.
It's like if they get offend by me trying to socialise with them, then why the fuck that a social event?

[TommyMountainFigure]

If I'm not dating anyone and I find an attractive woman i will absolutely go over and talk to her.. I'm not going to straight up ask for her phone number though. It all depends if there is any chemistry there.

[Anonymous]

I attempted to flirt with a guy I found cute only once in my life. I was tipsy at a college party. Too bad he was there with his girlfriend so I had no chance. But yea. I suppose the only time I'd ever get the courage to approach is when I'm tipsy enough not to care about my social anxiety.

[JosyJosy]

E. Very Likely. If I'm attracted to him, for sure he can be attracted to someone else. Hunt your prey before someone else takes it away ;)

[estoydorado1]

I hear you. I sometimes wonder how much a little bit of doubt has wound up costing me over the years. It makes me restless wondering what could have been.

[JosyJosy]

Haven't run into other matches?

[estoydorado1]

I have, but I can say with certainty that the guys I gave the time of day would not have worked due to incompatibility. Thats plenty of closure as opposed to the guys I kept things super distant with.

[snowgirl123]

as a girl I prefer to be discrete unless he has made the first move, and I would continue to move extremely slowly to be cautious

[Robert_]

Not very likely, I can never imagine that the person would be interested in me.

[estoydorado1]

What makes you think that?

[Robert_]

Overweight relatively short...

[estoydorado1]

Find a girl who engages in a similar lifestyle to you. Initial attraction can be overruled by other compatabilities sometimes. Try working on your self-esteem too. Assuming that you dont stand a chance because of your appearance may be helping to distance you from those that you are drawn to.

[Robert_]

I know but I am an engineer and thus have been in engineering universities. So the chance of meeting women was slim. And during the current situation I find it difficult to go to public places and mix.

[estoydorado1]

Yeah, the pandemic has complicated many things. I'm sorry that circumstances have set you back like that.

[Robert_]

Don't be I am doing fine.

[estoydorado1]

Then you're doing great in comparrison to many.

[Robert_]

I am a late bloomer in many things and I think is did manage to catch up in many ways.

[Abdulwahh]

Most of the time if i want to