How often do you approach someone you find attractive?

[Anonymous]

Never

Sometimes

[Summeroflove]

Not mostly strangers never say never but online dating or just walking up to someone random has never been my thing. Most the time I need to know someone before I feel attached now if I just see someone and feel like she’s the one I may approach her.

But I see too many people start trusting someone too fast they don’t even know and it doesn’t end well. If it’s someone I know a little bit then I’m more likely to approach. But if it’s someone I don’t know I just assume they are out minding their own business and don’t want to bother them. If a conversation happens naturally maybe but for the most part I tend to leave strangers alone.

[ohsheeT]

I mean, if I was out in a club Listening to music or danci wouldefinitely approach her

But just in life I'll smile as I walk by. Or? If they were with one of my friends or something, I probably would but other than that not to many times. I have to have a reason. beside that they are beautiful

[DishLady]

I’m in a line of work where I have to meet LOTS of people very quickly, en masse weekly, so I don’t get to “approach” one person singularly very often just on the basis of whether or not he sets off my “sexy meter”. Also, my meter is based more on what the guy says and does than on what he looks like. So… there’s that.


I’m hard pressed to think of when I’ve approached a guy I’ve ended up with… ever. I like a fellow who’s “man enough” to know what he wants and initiate.

[Nikki1989]

I haven't approached anyone in 15 years or more.

[NicholasRedone]

People know my preferences by now, surely 😋😋😋🙃😈 got milk lol E cups

[fish5505_87]

If I am feeling really good that day and supremely confident Yes! Otherwise, No.

[Asker]

How does it go?

[fish5505_87]

I have no context here, so, I would look for an opportunity interact in some way? Then, be a my usual light hearted sarcastic and goofy self. Might be an opportunity to interject on a conversation she's having.

[Anonymous]

Virtually never. The last woman I approached was like 7 years. ago. And as per usual it was just her trying to game me.

[moneymagnet24]

Everytime if I find her attractive instantly I go n talk to her

[NathanDavis]

I've only done it once... lol

[Asker]

How did it go?

[NathanDavis]

well, great... she was intrigued and interested as well, eventually we became a couple for some years

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't count, I just do it :D

[OneViewpoint]

Less than 20% of the time.

[Asker]

How does it go?

[OneViewpoint]

It's 50/50. Sometimes I misjudge the personality. Sometimes I get it right / she gets me right. So 20% of the time I hit on her of 50% of the time we get it right... 10% of the time we connect.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't, I mind my own business

[Anonymous]

I don't approach women at all

[Danny_dan92]

Never