Girls, how often do you get approached well by attractive guys?

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Ladies, I'm curious. How often do you get interest directly/boldly (but tactfully) expressed in you by attractive men in your day to day life?

I'm curious. I don't think I've ever seen this happen, and the few times I've done it, the women have seem really surprised and happy. But I'm kind of curious about numbers.

If you could help me out with a ballpark figure -- and maybe tell me how attractive you perceive yourself to be for basis of comparison -- I'd be much obliged.

washize · Accepted Answer

IT always seems like the most attractive men regularly approach me while I'm in a relationship.

Less attractive men approach more when I'm single. I have no idea if that is just in my head or what.

I'm not sure if it counts, but I get approached regularly at my job. I work at a bank, and I get hit on a minimum of 2 times a day.

On days that I don't work, it isn't as frequent perhaps 2-3 times on my days off.

Less attractive and less desirable men don't approach me as much anymore. I've started dressing "wealthier" and carry myself in a "I can have everything". kind of sense.

I've met plenty great guys, and had I been single I would have given them a shot. But I usually tell them I'm taken, but that I have friends and sisters who are hotter than me, and single, that they would probably fare better with. I've hooked up a few of my friends this way.

Tried to do the same with my sister, but we don't have the same taste in men.

I'm full of myself I consider myself an 8-10 depending on the day.

dreamergirl94 · Accepted Answer

Okay, this is something I've been struggling with. I find MOST guys pretty attractive..and my girlfriends will go "ew, no he's not cute!"...is this just me? like lol.

Therefore, I'd say on a regular basis. I get approached by guys a lot (not to be bragging) and I can find something attractive in every one of them. Whether it's his charm, smile, eyes, etc. Even if he's not a so-called "10", I always seem to be able to find something that will attract me. But that does NOT mean I always give him a shot. It's really about how he keeps the conversation going that makes me decide if I want to keep talking or not.

Maybe I'm just weird, I don't know. *shrugs*

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I consider myself a 9 and have been told many times that I am really pretty and cute. I find that I usually get approached by creepy men a lot. The really cute and attractive guys seem to only stare my way or are really hesitant to make a move once we start talking. It is my issue with the guy I am having now.

Cheeseburgers · Accepted Answer

Women here appear clueless as to 'why' they lack attention from attractive men.

Here's why:

From an evolutionary standpoint you are a genetically inferior woman.

It is natural selection at work.

Just as women are attracted to classic male attributes, men are attracted to classic female attributes.

Women blessed with said genetics 'will' be courted by superior men.

Conversely, absence of said attributes, you will 'not' be courted by superior men.

BCRanger10 · Accepted Answer

This is an interesting question.  Do you mind if I post my own question based on this (I only ask because you're not anonymous)?

klalsaleh · Answer

I consider myself and 10 but attractive guys on my level seem to only stare...and I stare at them too..I've never approached a guy and probably never will but average men and absolute frogs approach me all the time and I find it flattering. Black guys will approach anything and anybody.

Blondie195 · Answer

I feel like I get approached more often now that I came to college, but I feel that it is because of my bright bubbly personality. I'm not afraid to be silly and to be able to be me. I'm confident in myself/

Anonymous · Answer

On a 1-10 scale, 3 on my good days. -1 on bad.

I get approach zero times by attractive guys, unless they

a) want my homework

b) want answers to an exam

c) want to get friendly with whom they perceive to be my friend, but she isn't. we just get along

and d) they need an ego boost.

I don't like men very much. Or myself. *sigh

desidoll · Answer

I would say not very often. Most of the time I get approached by either average or below average guys. I don't know why ;-(

stillagoodgirl · Answer

Not too often. The majority of guys that hit on me aren't attractive physically. Some have charisma and the fact that they had the balls to approach me makes me give him a chance though

lalalolita · Answer

It's  very rare that an attractive guy hits on me. Ugly/weird people hit on me all the time  they have no shame lol. Even guys of average looks seem hesitant or nervous.

Izzy2102 · Answer

if you don't count bars, hardly ever. I can't even remember the last time it happened, it's been so long. well I am in a relationship tho

ariel1190 · Answer

To be honest, girls adore to be worshiped. however they might hear nice words 10 times a day, but anytime they will get surprised. we love attention.

vertigo3201 · Answer

I have never been approached before. I don't think that i'm very attractive, mainly because I'm not on the skinny side of the spectrum.

blackadderreturns · Answer

i know I'm not a girl but...every time I go to west hollywood

Iknowuwantthis · Answer

I never get approached by cute guys but I do make eye contact with some.

BrunetteNYC · Answer

Not often enough, happy when it happens.  I say the more the merrier lol

Anonymous · Answer

Key word being attractive (I.e. not crazy) never.  How attractive do I see myself? At least above average.

celestialdaeva · Answer

Somewhere in the ballpark of never.

Anonymous · Answer

Never

chocolateismylover · Answer

Its very rare.

jerryleelewis · Answer

Never.

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