Polls: Dating

Right now, there are a lot of guys who are left out of dating/romance. I believe in 2018 it was estimated that 28% of males viewed themselves as sexless under the age of 30. And this was before covid-19 pandemic, inflation and decrease job opportunities were in place.

I believe at present there are slightly more men than women in this world which gives women leverage in who they can be with. However, during World war period, there was a massive shortage of men so much so that women were the ones chasing men. Girls were being taught how to act like wives/girlfriend and were on their best behavior when it comes to dealing with guys. Now for this effect to happen, women had to outnumber men 2:1.

Do you think if we do a reverse china and cut down on the amount of male children in the world that the gender imbalance in dating could be fixed?

Would you date a woman who already has kids of her own?

because he dislikes displaying emotions and affection publicly yet is a massive softie and affection guy in private?

I’ve been texting a girl from class. Every time I reply to her, I get a text back, but usually around a day later. I’ve been trying my best to show her I’m interested in her, so is she trying to tell me that she’s not interested? She continues the conversation, replies in detail, and we’ve spent time together outside of class. Also, her What’s App last active also shows that she’s online about once a day, so I’m not sure if that’s just what she does in general or not.

i haven't been fortunate to have experienced many myself largely due to the fact i was single and on a limited income most of the time. so valentines day would typically be a non event for me most of the time

but wondering how many have you experienced so far in your life? and by truly romantic , mean a valentines day when your actually with someone and do on a date with them , have dinner , sleep together etc

I've seen a lot of people take pics at the arch of triumph in France. Or the eiffel tower.

I think what makes it "romantic"/seductive Is the fact that women know men built the city. They went to war and made the city rich. They established the trade routes. They built the churches. The shops. The houses.

And then they think to themselves "im on a date with one of the alphas of this city."

It has nothing to do with anything else. It's just a spotlight on men and how superior we are to women.

Vs. Going on a date with an alpha of some hick town. Like who gives a fuck lol. King of the cowboys.

Thats why where your stomping ground is is very important

Some people say that the theory of Alphas and betas is bs and I agree to a point. No one is completely Alpha or completely beta, I've noticed this myself, it's not black and white.

I'm a shy and quiet guy however I have my dominant moments and I'm far away from being a wimp. However the reality is that we all have a personality that is naturally more dominant or more submissive also known as being more Alpha or more beta.

So the people who believe in the Alpha and beta theory are wrong because they take it to the extreme, to the black or white mindset but it doesn't mean they are completely wrong.