Girls, Is it a dealbreaker for you if a guy is living at home?

[Anonymous]

I have a job and a good amount of money. I just don't know where I want to live yet... but when the living situation question comes up this definitely turns off more women than it doesn't... So it's clearly a problem. I mean I plan on changing things in the next few months, but I am just figuring out what.

Yes

No

[SueShe]

I don't date but if I was and I would meet a man that is 30 or 35 and still lives at home, despite the fact that he has sufficient funds to live on his own, it would certainly raise a number of questions, notably:

1. Is he reliable enough to make important decisions or does he always procrastinate with important decision to the last second, when there is no other alternative?

2. Would he expect his girlfriend to live with him at his parents' home?

3. Is he expecting others to take care of him?

4. Is he the stingy kind of person that does not want to spend a cent/penny but rather try to amass a fortune on the back of others?

Until those questions are answered to a satisfactory extend, yes, that would most probably be a deal breaker.