Should you go over to a guys house if you aren’t dating?

[Anonymous]

Are “date nights” okay at his house?

[ArrowheadSW]

Depends on the situation. Some guys would "read other things" into it and try to use it as an opportunity to see if you are willing to take it further. I really never had a problem with it. I have women over who I am not dating and things are fine.

[annabananna]

Ideally there isn’t anything wrong with it however, if you don’t want to sleep with him you will likely have to deal with him trying to do stuff you don’t want to do. That always gave me anxiety. I did have a guy friend in college and he never tried to do anything with me and we always had fun hanging out at each others home.

[Rosexøxø]

Well his dick is over there too, so don’t forget that useful tip of information.

[Rosexøxø]

And when you go, you’ll most likely be bringing your non-birth-controlled pussy, and prone-to-break condom (s), if any thought was put into it.

[Rosexøxø]

You decide if it’s okay 👌

[Still-alive]

"so don’t forget that useful tip of information. "

just the tip... heh :P

[Rosexøxø]

@Still-alive 😂 lmaO I felt the need to add “pun intended” but I just left it.

Glad you caught it 🤓👌👌

[BJP21]

I just spat out my drink from laughter. LOL That was good.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Sure. It's a booty call.

[Rosexøxø]

@BJP21 haha many thanks! Who said women can’t crack some jokes eh? 😁

I got oneeeee ☝️

(Glad you liked it) 😊😌

[Rosexøxø]

@JamesRandiDebates sure is.

[OlderAndWiser]

Are “date nights” okay at his house but you aren't dating? This needs some clarification.

[Guy13]

I would not go.

[smølf]

Visiting someone's home when you're not dating can be risky and can lead to misunderstandings. It's important to establish clear communication and boundaries with the person to ensure that both parties are on the same page about the nature of the relationship. If you're unsure about the person's intentions or feel uncomfortable, it's best to avoid visiting their home. Ultimately, the decision to visit someone's home is a personal one and you should only do so if you feel safe and comfortable.

[mobiusforniner]

I've had girls come to my house and i wasn't dating them. Maybe they thought i was, i dont know. A good "hangout buddy" of mine, cute blonde, undressed herself and asked to stay the night at my house. I kissed her head and took her home. She said thats never happened to her before.

I still beat myself up over that lol

[DavidHart]

Am curious (in details) how u took her home after that?
She undressed.. u ask her to get ready again?
Then u hold her hand while 'dragging' her out of your home?

[mobiusforniner]

@DavidHart she got down to her bra. I put her sweater on and told her i was taking her home. She didn't have a car. She insisted on sleeping in one of my other rooms for the night (I have a 3br house) but i didn't oblige. She was so confused. Lol.

But, in my mind anyway, I didn't want to sleep with a girl I didn't have feelings for.

I invited her to my wedding. She told my now wife that she had no idea who she was marrying. It was quite a compliment and i think she valued how i treated her. She had bought some paint and decorated my car when my wife and i drove off from the reception. Never talked to her again

[DavidHart]

Much respect to u.
And thank you for sharing in detail.
Now i know what to do if i happen to have myself in such situation.

[KittyKat90210]

A date night when you're not dating? If he's a friend and you're just hanging out then it should be ok to be there, but I'm not sure how that's a "date night"

[CindyBarrett436]

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[lightbulb27]

We'll I'd get to know him somewhere else first. But if it's a date at his house, it's a date... even if you aren't "officially" dating yet.

[catiecatie]

Yeah shit it’s okay to have guy friends. I have a bit actually. Plus it’s nice to ask him questions about guys that you are interested in. Just because it’s one on one doesn’t mean anything.

[JBlade]

No, why would it be an issue. Maybe I'm not understanding. Do you mean "date night" with someone who is already in a relationship?

[Asker]

We aren’t in a relationship , and I said no sex already lol he hasn’t attempted to have sex but is it an okay substitute for not going out?

[JBlade]

If you know him well and you guys are "only" hanging out I don't see an issue.

[slatyb]

Are you dating someone else? What are you going to do there? The obvious?

[Asker]

I said no to sex right away so no we aren’t having sex yet

[slatyb]

So what are you doing? Just chilling and talking? How is this "not dating?" Or is a romantic relationship just not possible for some reason?

[LiamJHayden]

Depends upon the dynamics. I have two lifelong female friends, like from before we started kindergarten. They come over frequently and often spend the night. Sex is not even a consideration - we are all like siblings.

[Apple1996]

Nah especially if he lives alone like he might be a serial killer

[Ms_Facesitter]

If you're friends, why not? But it shouldn't be uninvited.

[Jltakk]

there's a lot of factors to consider. Is this a random person or a close friend? If its the latter, don't see why not. Though for me to go to someone's house it would have to be for something worth leaving my house for.

[Anonymous]

if you're having date nights with him how is that not already dating?

[Asker]

We aren’t boyfriend and girlfriend

[Opinion Owner]

then don't go to his house

[Anonymous]

It's not necessarily a problem. Although "date night" at either your place or his typically means that sex is likely to happen. So plan accordingly.

[Jamie05rhs]

Nothing wrong with that. Just don't do it at night.

[Anonymous]

Not in my opinion. But I ain't about to tell someone how to live. y'all have to make your own mistakes and learn from them sometimes.

[harrison102]

Do you know him? You are an adult so you can make your own decisions

[Adaeva]

Are there girls that never date?

[melanieeeB]

If you wanna go over, then go over lol

[melanieeeB]

Just don't be naive, like he might wanna have sex, if you want to you can and if not say no or like if he made clear that he doesn't want a relationship and keep things casual, don't go if you have hopes he might eventually change his mind