Polls: Dating

I am by no means saying that you should be disloyal or anything, but I was just curious whether being in a relationship changes those interaction from being fun to being annoying.

Inspired from this question Do you think these men deserve to go to jail for third degree rape (banging a drunk woman)?

So if a girl agrees to drink with you and both of you are drunk, why is it considered rape to the woman when the same can be said about the man? The man could say he was drunk and did not have capacities to consent.
if you drink with someone, it can obviously lead to other things that you should be aware of.

Give me a story you know of a guy who said he thought his girlfriend wasn't his type at the beginning, cause I always hear the women say she thought her boyfriend wasn't her type at first.

It is very PC and trendy to say that body type doesn't matter, it what's inside that counts, etc., but. . . for most guys, you are either atracted or you aren't, and you can't change what it is that you find attractive. My "ideal" is a petite girl with a slender body, proportionate boobs, and a not-large butt. That isn't a dealbreaker and I have been attracted to, and dated, women with other body types. Just the same, I do have my preference. And I absolutely will not date women who are more than 20 lbs overweight or who have enormous, pendulous boobs.

Is there a body type that is always, automatically disqualified from your consideration? If you wouldn't date two or three of these categories, please explain in a comment.

I’ve been spending time with a girl from class. Every time I suggest we get dinner, she asks if we can do lunch. I’m trying my best to show her I’m interested in her, so is she trying to tell me that she’s not interested?

I went out with this girl 1 time, we made out have a lot of fun. After that i went away for almost a month and we keept chatting. She said she wanted to meet with me multiple times. That wanted to see me when i come back and now that i'm back in the same town. When i try to set up a date she says she dosn't know or maybe, or she'll tell me if she's avaible to go latter, the last time she told she could but that she'll have to leave early from (5pm to 9pm) basically playing hard to get or treating my like an option. It hurts couse i actually believed she wanted to see me back, but now it seems like she dosn't want to make an effort or she justs wants me as an last minute option. I'm sad please help