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Guys, which one are you and how has your luck with women been?
I was an introvert until i was 16 and then became more of an ambivert. I’m pretty wild when around the right ones or in my comfortzone. My dirty mindset is different though. Its quite extroverted and people have been aware of that since 16 or 17 except for my parents that is. But those mfs are freaky too so i really never had a reason to be hide it. At 15 my grandma said “i heard rumors, you got that cherry popped yet!” Like her ole freaky ass is certainly extroverted 🤣 But anyways, I like introverted or ambiverted men. Extroverts are always ON and too much for me. My first boyfriend was an extrovert and always doing too much for attention or always trying to be the life of the party. When i said on my post that i like the good boys who can be bad, im certainly referring to lonewolves and ambiverts. Its Just sexy how they surprise ya. I love how lonewolves seem shy and quiet to others but they’re wild n out when they’re around me or certain fam/friends. I guess on the poll i’ll choose introverts but certainly prefer ambiverts.
As an introvert, I prefer a guy that's introverted, or an ambivert (a person that's a balance of extrovert and introvert).
I get drained talking too much, or being around chatty, extroverted people. So the last thing I need is an extrovert that gets upset or wonders why I hate talking on the phone, or rather spend a night in watching tv or reading a good book, than going out all the time.
I’m an introvert insofar as social activities take energy, instead of giving it, to me. I’ve found that women’s preferences depend on their personality. Though, I imagine pursuing a woman would be easier if you were an extrovert. The act of pursuing a woman is draining for an introvert. . . just like every other social interaction; so I imagine a woman can pick up on that energy and may not feel as desired as a result
I'm introverted unless I'm with other people I gel with. Also bipolar, so when I have a manic episode, I'm extroverted to an extent. I've had alright luck with girls, but that's because when I meet someone who's right for me, we click really well. If someone's not right for me, I shut down socially which isn't such a bad thing.
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I am introverted with bouts of extroversion or communicative. Introspective by nature.
I really don't have a preference. I dated a guy who was more introverted than me. The relationship was ok, it wasn't like super difficult or anything. But I did find that even though I am introverted, I sometimes did small things that were probably considered more extroverted. That's how it felt sometimes when I was with that guy. I've been on dates with guys who are extroverted and that was also ok too. They always say opposites attract but I feel like at least for me I have gone for guys who are introverted like me. I have had extroverted guys ask me out but I turned them down because nothing was really going there for me chemistry wise. I think I prefer introverted guys. I never found a extroverted guy I liked because I find their super outgoing personality where they love being around a bunch of people and doing a bunch of stuff tiring.
I myself am an extroverted introvert (if that makes any sense to you!). I don't like flashy, loud, extroverted guys for sure.
I like collected men who might be introverted but like still nice to talk to and respectful. Like, some people are overly shy, to the point that they'd make you feel unwanted and a bit rude tbh.
Like, I can definitely open the conversation, but you need to participate or I'm going to lose interest.
I like getting out and doing things, I am a bit shy but I still would rather go to social events and be out with large crowds and people as I am a extrovert or maybe ambivert.
I do not like to stay home and be alone and not do things.
These are simply personality traits that people get growing up.
I’m more introverted. I like fellow introverts but I’ve also dated an extrovert and it was nice to have opposites.
So I prefer introverts but not opposed to extroverts.
Also, funny guys make me weak in the knees. They’re typically extroverted.
It seems that many people don’t actually know what introversion means… and I can’t be bothered to explain. Anyhow, I have dated both types. I like both types. I just prefer a confident man who knows his own mind, whether he’s introverted or extroverted.
I'm an introvert, let that not be confused with an indivual who can not socialize proberly because I can and I do. It's just draining.
I do not prefer one over the other - I've dated people in both camps and ambriverts. As long as they respect my need for down time - here sometimes even from them, then it's all good.
I'm an introvert who has gotten extroverted over the years but I still don't fit into the ambivert category.
I like guys who are more on the introverted side but they can't be those super shy ones. I like shy but everything has its limits. I prefer a guy who is a homebody over a guy who needs to be the spotlight everytime, everywhere.
I'd like someone in the middle. I'm introverted, so it would be nice to have a guy who balances me out, urges me to do things more often, but is also happy to stay home and just do chill stuff.
I can socialize well when I want, wouldn’t say I'm full blown extrovert but none would say I'm introvert at all.
I like introverted men because they are peaceful and get their energy from their own company, my stressfull study and job often make me shut down social circles and it puts a strain/distance with other extroverted friends. Slow communication never strained my relationships with any of my introverted friends, including men, which I fondly appreciate.
I am in introvert I like introvert because they are real empath caring kind funny (dark jokes ironic) sarcastic all this in a good way
I'm introverted and I always wanted introverted partners, most people I've been into were introverts. I just don't find extroverted characteristics attractive at all
I'm introverted and my boyfriend is extroverted so it works out well, he encourages me to go out and see people
I'm an introvert, my partner is an extrovert, but there are times when we'll slip into our ambivertness. Lol
I might be introverted. But is it bad if I'm not sure which I'd like in a partner?
I’m an introvert and I’ve always preferred introvert men.
Introverted for sure! I do like talking to people but after sometime, I just get annoyed and want to go back home
somewhat introverted I only talk when I need to just don't talk for the sake of talking but when I talk people lessen.
I'm pretty introverted, so I would like an extroverted guy more
I used to be very introverted. Worked on it.. Much better now but definitely no extrovert
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