Girls, who would you rather date shy, nerdy, and intellectual or confident, athletic, and popular?

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Option 1: shy, nerdy, and intellectual  Option 2: confident, athletic, and popular I would also love to see an explaination!

Lalalove11 · Accepted Answer

As an introvert I get on well with introverts who are smart and thoughtful. Although sometimes I need someone more confident and outgoing to force me out of my shell (probably for a short term thing)

Discussions are always more interesting with introvert introspective types however.

I assumed nerdy guys would be less likely to use manipulation but in my experience that hasn't been the case!

Better not to judge a book by its cover.

In the long term though I think the shy nerdy types are more suited to my introversion.

Bethany22 · Accepted Answer

At this point, I'd say option 2. I used to want option 1, but that was mainly just because I thought that that would eliminate his chances of cheating. But that turns out to be untrue. So I might as well go out with the athletic, confident guy who I know not to have high expectations for in terms of deep understandings about being shy.

inhua · Accepted Answer

actions speak louder than words. what women say out of their mouths is not always what they do or choose. observations should tell you option 2 >>>>>>> option 1

RockyHammock · Accepted Answer

Why do they have to be inclusive? Athletes can also be valedictorians

AmyHew1tt · Answer

I can't really choose one. My choice would be a guy who's in the middle. I've always found nerdy guys speak more to my friendship side, just because we have a little too much in common, and I think I need someone who would balance out my introversion. But popular/confidence is whatever. Great if he has it, it's fine if he doesn't. And shy is cute, as long as it opens up once we know each other.

Cassie88 · Answer

Shy, nerdy and intellectual for sure, every single time, because that's what I am through and through. The "confident, athletic and popular" ones tend to be f**ked in the head as well, and will often use subtle manipulation to get what they want (which is never good).

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I'm dorky and a nerd myself, so it's only natural I'd probably want someone that's similar to me.

HighValue · Answer

Intelligent athletic and confident would be a better mix.

PinkRose24 · Answer

Shy, nerdy, intellectual, confident, and athletic. What do you mean by popular? Like everybody likes him or he's a man ho?

annabananna · Answer

. It’s more important on who I click with. I usually go well with an outgoing creative nerd. I’m a bit shy so I usually pair well with extroverts.

DancingQueen16 · Answer

My current partner is kinda like option 1 I mean I wouldn't exactly say he's nerdy but he's really smart

canobiwan · Answer

i have not meet anyone over age of 18+ that still is ij the nerdy shy geek phase

Anonymous · Answer

Anyone's fine. I only consider if he loves me according to my expectations no matter which category he fall into

xoxosilentgirl · Answer

confident and intellectuals

anon1903 · Answer

Option 1. I'm also introverted.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Shy girl, I can't deal with popularity

melanieeeB · Answer

Confidence is always my choose.

Babygirl_S · Answer

The one who has a more handsome face 😼

whereismyjohnny · Answer

Option one.

Anonymous · Answer

Option 1.

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