Which kind of girl would you rather date? A girly girl, or a girl that's like one of the guys?

[So_What]

I know I can't find out what EVERY guy likes, but from your perspective which kind of girl would you rather date? Someone who is all girly, wears skirts or dresses, makeup, always has pink stuff, always had her girls around her. Just a girly girl.

OR would you rather date a girl who is pretty much like one of the guys, hung out with guys and felt comfortable with your friends, never wore dresses and just wore jeans or shorts, didn't really wear makeup but was still cute, played video games like Black Ops or Smackdown Vs. Raw games, made gross/perverted jokes, and did curse.

Which girl out of the two would you rather date?

[drummerdude27]

neither honestly. the girly girl would annoy me to no end so I don't care how hot she is, there would be nothing in my mind for a relationship with her. If I wanted to date someone who is totally of the guys, I would be gay and dating one of the guys. the second one is closer but I would have to have a few changes to that description to have something there.

almost one of the guys but still a girl, hung out with guys and felt comfortable with your friends, doesn't wear dresses all the time, but every once in a while will wear one to change things up, didn't wear makeu but was still cute, played video games but isn't obsessed and isn't a hard core gamer, makes groass perverted jokes on occasion but still has a clean sense of humor for the rest of the time, I don't care if she cusses as long as she doesn't cuss like a sailor.

i want the girl to be a girl while fitting in with the guys moreso than girls, she should still have friends that are girls but I like my girls to be reall chill like a guy with a little feminine touch

[Kheir]

I'll take the "Tom Boy" type girl any day. They tend to be a bit more realistic and practical in their behavior, their tastes and their thinking. Plus, since this type of girl seems to like more of the things I do, well; lets just say I find it hot when a woman drives as big of a truck as I do, and doesn't mind doing her own oil changes.

[Anonymous]

Im quite a girly girl, but you have your facts wrong. I don't act like that, I have a good tast in clothes and take care of my image. But I have been known to curse a lot, and have been known to be perverted and I like to play video games.

THIS I FIND OFFENSIVE

[So_What]

It wasn't meant to be offensive. I'm sorry if I did but I just really like this guy and I really want me to like me so I just want to find what exactly guys are into to know if I even have a chance with him. Plus most girlie girls I kno act like that so that's just how I see them.

[Anonymous]

I've dated both and prefer the tomboy no make up type girls

[Dylan1989]

I would rather girls stop comparing themselves to each other and just be their natural selves. You are who you are! Physically, emotionally, mentally (does that come under emotionally?) and spiritually. And there is no need to try and change yourselves just to make guys like you more. The right guy(s) will like you for who you are and if you want a relationship the guy will like you more for your personality than your looks guaranteed!

You are all beautiful in your own special way! Like I said, you are who your are, and for a very good reason too!

Wow, I sound like a woman!

[So_What]

lol.

I'm not gonna change for anyone because I'm happy with the kind of girl I am. I was just asking to know what kind of girls guys are interested in because of a conversation I was having with my guy friends.

[thatguyy]

at heart I would like to date a girl that is like one of the guys...that likes out doors stuff and I would be comfortable when she is around my friends but I would like her to know how to dress up and look stunning for some occasions ( even if she is not comfortable doing it ... it would show me she cares and wants to look good for me).

i know its a mix of both options but its the truth...and its short and sweet.

[So_What]

That's okay. I'm really just trying to find what it is that guys really like that's all. I'm kind of a tomboy but unlike the other tomboys I know, I'm a little bit more worried about my appearance. I like a guy in my class and I just really want to impress. We're friends and all but I have no idea what kind of girls he's into. He just says "the usual" and I have no idea what that is. So a girl who is like one of the guys but dresses nice right?

[thatguyy]

exactly...cuz I can open up and talk to a girl I can relate to more than I can a girly girl that is nice to look at, but you can only go so deep into conversations and such with most girly girls.

[So_What]

Awesome thank you! =)

[chrsschb]

I married option B. To me they are more real (sometimes in a bad way) and we get along better. We have similar hobbies and enjoy doing similar things. We are both movie buffs, like games, etc so spending time together is easy. Although our sex drives are far opposites, lol.

The only real issue with option B is that she tends to have nothing but guy friends and it takes an insane amount of trust to not have insecurities about her.

[WeaponZero]

One of the guys, definitely. They just tend to bring a lot less drama to the table.

One of the golden rules about relationships that women have a very hard time following is to never ever ever do anything that would make your partner question your sanity/mental stability. Don't ask me why, but tomboys and girls who are "one of the guys" tend to violate this rule a lot less often.

[TonyMetal25]

i think I would prefer a mix of both, I don't like a girl to curse and say gross perverted jokes but I like all the other things about her and the 1st one I think she's high standard girl, but I like a girl to be feminine too and put some make ups from time to time...as I said a mix of both is good!

[Brando]

For me, it would be a nice blend of the two. I guess I like a girl to act like a girl, or at least how I'd imagine a girl would act. Sweet, caring, motherly/nurturing, romantic, all that stuff. But at the same time, it would be cool if she knew how to have fun with the guys and not be bored doing "guy things".

I guess the best term to describe this type of girl is if she was androgynous.

[Jonny_]

I'd date either, Though I do like tomboys, as they are generally more dominant and confident.

[So_What]

Awesome thanks! Though would you still prefer the tomboy if the girly girl was dominant and confident as well?

[Jonny_]

Probably.

[darkknight1x]

The girl that's more like one of the guys. The girly girls seem too sophisticated and spends too much time in the bathroom. I prefer a woman that's cute,dresses casual and plays video games over the a hot girly girl.

[DaveMicharl69]

They're both equally appealing to me, as is a girl like my BFF who's somewhere in the middle. As long as a girl is nice & I enjoy being with her, I want her to be whichever way makes her happiest...

[mmelen514]

I'd like a girl with the best of both worlds.

A girl that can wear a dress, but little makeup and the girl who can have a beer with guys, play video games and curses every now and then.

[snackeyg]

Based on how you described them I'd have to say inbetween. I usually prefer girly girls over one of the guys but you didn't say anything about being into sports and stuff.

[snackeyg]

Oh and to answer based the way your question actually is written. The girls that's one of the guys.

[So_What]

Oh sorry. Well based on most of my girlier friends I would say the girly girl doesn't really like sports that much. The "one of the guys" girl would be into sports like wrestling, basketball, sometimes football.

[snackeyg]

Oh. Then I say girly girl. lol

[So_What]

K awesome. Though can you please give a reason? Like what makes the girly girl more attractive?

[snackeyg]

The one that's more like the guys just tends to not be the kind of girl I like and is usually not what I like. I like cute, bubbly girls. I bet you're outdoorsy too which isn't me.

[snackeyg]

But like I said the inbetween is probably best.

[So_What]

K thanks!

[snackeyg]

Welcome :) Sorry if my explanation kinda sucked.

[So_What]

Lol that's okay. You have your answer and why so it's all good lol. I'm just trying to find what guys are into that's all. I'm friends with this guy and I want to impress him but I don't know if he would even like me that way. So I figured if I asked what type and why I would be able to figure it out and be a little bit more confident if I went to ask him out.

[ladsin]

definitley tomboy around the girly girl I have to clean up and pretend to be someone I'm not... I hate that

[MandMandM]

Girly girl. I like contrast rather than similarity.

[mlrock]

I like a combination. I like a girl who will often dress like a girl, etc. However, I like a girl who I can talk about guy stuff with.

[GuyAdviceFromGuy]

A girlie girl that acts like a tom boy. So a perfect balance.

[Anonymous]

Both girls seem nice to me. Though I like tomboy girls because they're not as offended by my farts as girly girls.

That's about all I have to say...or should say.

[mjmlag]

I prefere a girl that is girly, but really confident in herself and likes to get down and dirty.

[andrewf]

be youself, some guys like girly, some like sporty, and some like in between.

[Alpha93]

the tom boy sounds better...

[Jaleel]

#2 please lol

[DanielSan]

in the middle?