Do you have disagreements on age gaps?

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DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

For me personally, anything 5+ years is a no go. And In general i think age gaps of 10+ years is concerning and 20+ years is disgusting because they’re old enough to be the persons parent. When i was in school, I went for dudes in my grade, not up nor down. When i got to college, i had to start asking for age because a lot of people look younger than they are. (A lot of old people go back to school late).

smashleyy · Accepted Answer

If it’s just a sexual relationship and it’s legal I see no issues but in significant age gap relationships I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t side eyeing a bit. If they are at completely different stages of life and there’s a very clear power imbalance then it’s a bit weird. What does a 20 yr old and a 40 yr old really have in common aside from sex. Nothing for the majority

JustinTheGreat · Accepted Answer

Really depends on the gap.
like I always thought it was weird when people who are 30+ date those who are 18-23. I just don’t get what a grown ass 30 year old would have in common with someone fresh out of highschool. An 18 year old is a child compared to someone that age.
they’re an adult so it’s their choice but I do question the motives of someone who goes after someone that young

petitedollbabee · Answer

As long as both parties are over 18, I think that a 10 year gap or less is acceptable. More than 10 years is pushing it.

Anonymous · Answer

To me it's more about what the people look like. I'm 43 but I look younger so some guys can get away with dating women in their 20's.

Anonymous · Answer

What’s the age gap it depends  I know 18 is an adult but let’s say still 18 dating 40 to me it’s mental Illness anyways

anon1903 · Answer

Yes. Age gap relationships are creepy

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