Whats the max? And do you mind it? I'm a bit older than my man
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1 yI actually prefer an age gap at this point (58). It's not science by any means and not true for all women but my experience is that a LOT of women in their late 40's and 50's have a lot of baggage they are dragging around. I can't fix that. So I won't try.
I've dated women these ages in the past few years...
25 she went after me.
27 she went after me.
28 she went after me.
35 she went after me.
37 she went after me.
45 she went after me.
I honestly don't chase younger women and I can be really hard to get to know. Dunno why they kept at it till I gave in. I have actually been shocked by the age gap some of them found acceptable.
Mid 20's are too young in my opinion. They were relatively mentally mature and fun. And they were more physically able to keep up with me. But there were too many cultural and experiential differences for anything long term.
Early 30's to late 40's seems to be the sweet spot for me. Completely matured personalities. Know better what they want. Still great looking and great in bed. Still able to do stuff like skiing. Better able to connect based on experiences and culture.
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2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. So long as you’re less than 3 years older than him all is well
Personally I don’t mad age gaps
But I do recognize that the bigger the gap the harder it is to build for the future
A nice rule of thumb I like is:
Take my age divide it by 4 and use that number as a gap in either direction
So me being 27 now means any girl from the age of 20 to 34 is close enough to me to be somewhat relatable (the closer the better naturally)
And yes the gap gets bigger as I age because adults don’t change all that much between one or two years not like kids and teens who become a whole different person every year (but I have no intention of dating those)00 Reply
People who say “as long as they’re legal” scare me cause the legal age could be 11, and it is in some countries, and they’d be down. I’ve met people with this mentality and they’re scary.
I’m 24 and I wouldn’t date younger unless he was super mature nothing you younger than 21. Oldest I’d date is 30 and that’s kind of pushing it.01 Reply- 1 y
What if they say as long as she is 18?
1 yLol. You and me. Hated guys close to my own age. My husband is seven years older than me. Max difference, which is subject to change as we get older, is 15-18 years. Have trouble with the idea of dating someone who is old enough to be my dad or younger than me. Have always preferred guys at least three years older.
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1 yNot over child bearing years and not under 18…. It matters to make a genuine connection
10 Reply3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Nope age doesn’t matter to me if her and I have great chemistry and connection together
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1 yIt really doesn’t matter what the age gap between two people is! When there is a genuine connection it doesn’t matter if there is a generational gap!! Remember, the heart wants what the heart wants and there is a bit of a security feeling being with someone older than you and vise versa it gives a nurturing personality someone to help, guide and take care of when with someone younger than them!! The point to remember is there is ONLY the two involved opinions that matter and who gives a #^#< what any “ Outsider “ may think?
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Anonymous(18-24)1 yWhy does everyone talking about age gaps on here always freak out about age of consent? I have never had a guy care about age of consent when I wasn't 18. I have had tons of guys way older than me hit on me and I know my friends went through this also when we were in school. It was constant. But on here it's like the holy grail like no one would ever consider it if a girl is one day under 18. Phonies.
11 Reply831 opinions shared on Dating topic. If you're a bit OLDER than your man (your profile says 20) then maybe you're treading on thin ice.
I think age gap is less important than maturity. Girls are told and conditioned to believe they are more mature than boys from the moment they can talk and it often causes them to get into things that are way beyond their capacity and opens them up to manipulation and heartache from users and players. This will taint their view of men as they get older and perhaps make them bitter IF they let themselves get into a habit of serving themselves up to guys who may be the hot stuff of the village but are really just dudes who know how to manipulate girls with things that excite them.
Once mature though there shouldn't be an issue with 10, 20 or 40 year age gaps if both are in stable life states they can return to should things go south.
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m 1 ythe biggest difference with an ex-girlfriend... was, she was four years younger than I am
the rest were closer in age or my same age12 Reply- 1 y
heya... yes, great to see you back again, again... lol
514 opinions shared on Dating topic. Depending mostly on the emotional connection I feel with someone.
Realistically I won't go beyond 15 years over very quickly, but I imagine if I really feel attuned to someone, I might be open to it.
I don't remember ever feeling attracted to someone younger, but can't entirely say it wouldn't happen either.
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1 yI'm already married with a 1 year age gap (I'm 23 and my husband is 24) but if that weren't the case I most likely wouldn't date people that are either younger by 3 years or older by 7 years but for the older people if I just seemed to click with them so well that I could make exceptions.
00 ReplyI prefer a little bit younger, but that's just me. I think all my girlfriends have been younger. My current partner is as well.
I think that an age gap becomes problematic - or difficult to handle - when it's more of a generation gap, i. e. when you approach the age of the father of the girl you want to date. Again, that's just me.
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1 yHow much is a bit older? The age you have listed is 20. 16 years to 30 age has a magnified effect. If you are 55 and your dating someone 45 who cares. If you are 40 and dating 25 starting to be creepy. If you are 20 dating 16 can be illegal. So it's situations dependant.
00 Reply881 opinions shared on Dating topic. yea i dont want to be a baby cougar or dating a much older man. ideally the closer in age the better for me. i'm 24 for reference. the absolute youngest i could date would be 20 1/2, and absolute oldest, 33. though those aren't ideal, 23-25 would be the best
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1 yFor the most part I don't, I don't have a max. I get concerned when we are talking about older guys 27+ going after barely legal girls. It can be predatory.
30 Reply514 opinions shared on Dating topic. Honestly I'm most attracted to older women.
Never had much luck in my 20s sp om glad to know many women like older men. At 40 if I take care of myself and make some money I could still pull a 20 yr old. Trouble is many people will accept a 40 yr old woman dating younger men, but they will be much less likely to accept an older man.00 Reply- 595 opinions shared on Dating topic.
1 yHow big is the age gap? My age range is between 30 and 50, so ten years either way. I prefer men my own age but as long as he’s in the age bracket I mentioned, I will date him.
I’m not a sugar baby or a cougar.
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1 yI think all couples on Earth should always be legal age plus - aka as long as a person is a legal adult and the other person in the relationship is a legal adult - couples are a couple as long as it's legal and all legal :)
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1 yHonestly it's a huge problem. It feels like I am a parent not a partner. She gets really annoyed by me parenting her. But I have to because she doesn't know how to do anything right. Like she has the turn the credit card around a bunch of times to check out. I know the cashier hates to see her coming. she asks stupid stupid questions to. They must hate us because of the dumb questions she asks.
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1 yTil a certain extent yeah.. Moreso with a younger woman than an older.. I won't go younger than 21.. And I won't go older than 45.. Unless she is fione.. But I also want children so I prefer a slightly younger woman..
00 Reply 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Well, I think you can guess. I prefer younger. I could go much younger.
But most important thing is emotional connection and that she stays in shape/cares about her health.
00 Reply13.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. No one else's opinion matters. I occasionally worry about very young women (18-22) being pursued by older men, because in my experience those relationships have been bad news for the woman.
00 ReplyI dint think it matters. Age is just a number. When I was 18 I had a relationship with a 40 year old woman. She was awesome, and taught me so much about sex.
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Anonymous(25-29)1 yYou can't grow old with someone who is already old. At some point, you will still be young and active being married to a senior citizen where you have to change their diapers, make sure they dont fall and remind them to take their meds
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So what about you, lady? Politely, since as you are a woman ♀️👠 what's your benchmarks for should your man be older than you or younger than you, as you're in the 25-29 bracket according to your bio, what's your number? Obviously please say 18 plus duh 😉🙄
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Or 21 plus if your country restricts gambling and alcohol to only 21 plus lol my country it's all 18 - technically 16 though for driving though varies and age of consent supposedly 16
2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. I prefer men a little bit younger than me. Id only go older if I really really liked the guy
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@Apple1996 That is a much nicer way of saying things about us older folks ha! :)
1 yMy husband he is a lot old. He is the best He is all about family and we share the same values and we bought love our God Jehovah.
00 Reply18.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Older or slightly younger for a woman is fine. Dating younger men has always seemed weird to me.
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u 1 yI'm just about six years older than my wife. Originally, I'd wanted to stay within two to three years.
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1 yAs long as both are adults and good for each other.
Then the number doesn't matter that much.00 Reply
1 yI think age gaps become less and less of a concern as people get older. 18yo dating 20yo? normal. 40yo dating a 34yo? not normal, per se, but totally okay.
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1 yAge doesn't matter. I'm 63 and my boyfriend is 48. ✌️
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1 yWe have a 15 year difference. It works for us.
10 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I date around my own age. I don't see that changing.
10 ReplyDoesn't bother me as long as we're into each other. Judging by how amazing you look in your profile picture, I expect your guy can't believe his luck!
00 Reply459 opinions shared on Dating topic. I have news for you if your boy is younger then you he isn't a man yet, considering you're only 20.
11 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes , at the age of 20 the guy should always be the older party.
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1 yAs long as both parties have reached the age of consent, anything goes in my book.
00 Reply8.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. I uswd to think 10 years either way would be okay. Now that i am old I think a woman ten years older would be on medicare.
00 Reply2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. If you're 20 and dating a younger guy you might have a problem psychologically and with the law
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1 yNope. Idgaf. Unless she's a minor then you have to f*king care about the age gap lol.
10 Reply3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Long as they are at least 18, and still have a pulse, not truly.
00 Reply461 opinions shared on Dating topic. None of my business... as long as its legal. If it works it works.
00 ReplyFor me personally a few years younger or maximum 10 years older is fine. Everyone has their own preferences. I do think that a late teen (18-19) dating someone much older is creepy though.
00 ReplyIt does a bit to me, well mainly age is not the issue it's the change in perspective due to the experiences people have with age.
I prefer women who are a bit like minded with me.00 Reply- 630 opinions shared on Dating topic.
1 yI've dated girls 20 years younger. Depends on the girl.
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1 yDo I care? No. I mean it’s a fair trade honestly. She is using him for his resources, he is using her for her body.. do what you do
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1 yIf it works for you two, then don't knock it.
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1 yI mean, ultimately, age shouldn't matter, but, to a point. I mean we don't need pedophiles out here, right, republicans? Right?
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Anonymous(30-35)1 yI’m talking to a guy who is 48 and I’m 31. But it sucks , he acts like he is 21. Sigh…
20 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. The girl I am talking with now is 30 years younger than me. I have dated girls 40 years younger when I was younger.
00 Reply2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. I think it's a lot about maturity and emotional intelligence, and obviously 18 is a hard limit.
At 29, I think 20-21 is the lowest I'd consider.00 Reply
1 yWell it actually older than your boyfriend or husband he's very lucky to have you... That means you have the beauty and intelligence of a excellent woman
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u 1 yHow much older are you?
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1 yNo, or doesn't matter. My wife is 11 years younger than me and we have been together for 20 years.
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1 yNo issues with an age fall as long as both parties are consensual and legally able to consent
00 Reply 320 opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't really care about age gap, I'd date a guy 8years older
And 3 years younger
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1 yI have limitations. No one older. 7 years younger max.
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1 yI’ve always loved it with women older than me… and i don’t care avout age gap untill shez between 20-55
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1 yHow much older than you man are you? No I don't care about the age gap and my max is 10 years
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Do you always date younger guys
1 yI don't think so.. my boyfriend is 35 and im 20
20 Reply4.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not really. As long as everyone is an adult there is no maximum.
00 ReplyI don't care about age gap but yeah maturity I would always expect.
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1 yI do. I'm just not a fan of a big age gap because it just feels out of place for me.
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