Anyone else find this to look desperate/ a turn off on dating apps?

[Anonymous]

Sending two msgs back to back, while I didn’t even reply to the first one yet. Shouldn’t you wait, I thought double texting was a no no?

Yes

No

[TruthBringer]

So you connected with this individual on a dating app and you're flabbergasted that he puts in the effort to actually connect with you? The fact you're ignoring him for days, leaving him on read, is actually reflecting badly on you.

Sure, he should grab his balls and just walk away, like any man with self-respect would. Not because you're uninterested, but because you're a waste of his time. Turn him down already so he can invest that effort in a woman who is going to reciprocate. But no, you want the validation of someone chasing you, don't ya?

I swear, women like you are the reason why so many men quit on dating and focus on themselves. The only good thing you Narcs do is make me appreciate my girlfriend even more. Because she is exactly the polar opposite than you are.

[FilmGuy93]

That’s not “back to back” texting; he’s waiting days between messaging you. He’s given you plenty of time to respond. He just wants to talk with you; if that’s a turn off for you, I would humbly submit that his behavior isn’t the issue.

you’re on a dating app. The purpose is connect with people. He’s putting in effort to connect with you

[Asker]

That definitely is back to back & kinda stalkerish. You reply to my photo the first time, as soon as we match he sends a message yesterday & sends a reply this morning while I didn’t even reply yet.

[FilmGuy93]

No, it is absolutely not. That is extremely normal human behavior when you want to talk to someone.

[melanieeeB]

Double texting itself can be normal.
But do I find guys desperat who keep texting you, even tho you haven't replied? Yeah kinda I do

[OlderAndWiser]

Is a guy's lack of familiarity with the texing code, or falure to follow the code, more important than his character?

[Guy13]

Yeah, it exhibits impatience, self-absorbtion, and general rudeness or lack of socialization

[Anonymous]

This is pretty funny. No doubt the same woman will one day be complaining that no men are contacting her. I've always said this and I will say it again, dating apps and dating in general is only for simps. Do so at your own risk!

[Jamie05rhs]

A lot of girls say that they won't respond to just a "Hey" message. So I think what probably happened is he realized his mistake and tried to correct it by saying something else to open up the conversation.

[Randalama]

Oh no, a double post. Send him to jail. This is the ridiculous standard you are being held to on these dating apps gentlemen. This is the trap. Protect yourselves.

[Anonymous]

How long was the Monday message versuses the other 2. You probably weren't interested in him to begin with.

[Asker]

It’s in the screenshot, he sends a message as soon as we match last night & again this morning, while I didn’t even reply to the first message yet

[Anonymous]

have you taken a long look in the mirror lately you're not exactly god's gift to men so get over yourself

[Asker]

Ok anon

[Asker]

Go troll coward

[Anonymous]

No. It's a dating app. Conventional rules don't apply.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the texts and how close together they are.

[FunkyMonkee]

WHAT look?

[Asker]

DOUBLE TEXTING = DESPERATE

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe they figured the first one didn't get through, or something. Computers and phones AREN'T perfect. Nothing wrong with being friendly!
I would think making a big deal out of nothing would be a bigger offense.

[Anonymous]

Stop being a bitch