Questions: Dating

Don't get me wrong if this sounds too basic, just to clarify some confusions asking this thing to you girls.

My first wife was a smoker. I hated it and she eventually would go outside to smoke. After a few years, she quit because she needed surgery and the surgeon wouldn't proceed until she had stopped for at least 30 days. After our divorce, I never again dated a smoker.

"It's like kissing an ashtray" is a cliche, but it's true. And she smelled bad unless she had not smoked since taking a shower. And. . . my perception is that most smokers - men and women - are oblivious to the rights of others and don't care if their smoke is annoying you or triggering a migraine headache.

So. . . never again for me. How about you?

I am not a physically attractive guy. Although I am kinda fit ( 5'11", 160 lbs) and i always try to have a better body with exercise and do drinking, drugs and for a couple of days no known sugar as well as limiting to the absolute the best of my ability processed foods.

Also i have a head full of hair that I try to style as i can. I am hally because I used to have trichotillomania and I stopped it so new hair grew back.

My biggest flaw is my unattractive face and especially my asseyrical eyes that one has a ptosis and makes my face fully unattractive.

Pls do not provide me with answers like: " Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". This is wishful thinking disgiused as wisdom.

So I would love to hear your thoughts.

If it is a new guy in the dating app does it seem like he is trying to win you over or trying hard or you don't think in that way at all.

After reading a article this thought came to my mind.