Polls: Dating

I gathered the courage to ask her and she kindly said yes but the problem is I didn't specify where to go and I've got no idea what is the best first date location? We "know" each other only from passing.

Never had such a trouble to ask a girl out if I'm tbh, she made me so nervous.

So which location/activity do you think is the best?
My date seems to be more on the shy side, introverted maybe but she's friendly and cracking jokes here and there. She also seems to be into cars which is awesome.

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I've been very passive most of my life, often keeping my differing opinion to myself when in a group setting such as in a classroom, but if someone asked me directly, I'd have little hesitation stating my differing opinion.

For instance, back in high school, a girl was complaining about getting a detention for using her phone during class earlier in the day. I didn't say anything but when she said my name, looked at me and said "right"? As if to ask me to vouch for her seeing as how I was there as well, but to her surprise, I said "well, you've been using your phone in class for quite some time and she's told you multiple times to stop but you continued, so yeah you got a detention for it".

This angered her as expected and seemed to shock her as she's a big figure in the "popular crowd" and likely was used to people affirming her but I threw a curveball she didn't expect.

Over the years, I've become more passive aggressive and about a year ago when a slight change to my medication for anger management, depression and ADHD, I've now become more assertive than passive. I take absolutely no issue inserting my opinion into a discussion when it's contrary to the popular one. Even when there's a good chance someone may get offended by what I say.

While I also take no issue in acknowledging the limitations I have in regards to topics I know little about, like cars and such, in those cases, I make my unfamiliarity clear and delegate to those who are familiar. I also tend to probe others opinions when stated in a general manner, wanting to know what led them to their conclusion.

I'd call this a positive development for me and my girlfriend of 2 years seems to like this development as well. I wouldn't consider myself confident nor self loathing, just realistic and abel to acknowledge that there's nothing special about me.

I am curious how others view this though, do you find it attractive if someone is outspoken and isn't afraid to offend others?

You do not have a choice in whether you feel attracted to someone or not. Someone else does not have a choice in whether they feel attracted to you or not.

However you do have a choice to respect someone whether you feel attracted to them or not. Just like someone else can make a choice to respect you regardless of how they feel.

Personally I think too many people equate attraction to respect when it comes to dating. And no offense ladies but if you actually respected a guy who likes you (but you don’t find attractive) then you understand how insulting the friendzone is.