Is it right or wrong for women to want our money?

[Anonymous]

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I get it. Its perfectly reasonable to not date an alcoholic and being under the threat of living under a bridge. Its also reasonable to be on the look out to have food at home and the bills being paid. But where do we draw the line between a woman being in it for love and a woman selling her love like a service in order to take advantage of us and the money especially if it was not agreed upon prior?

right

so so

wrong

i am not sure

[Stoner710]

Both Man of course should be taken care of the women they should be the financial centerpiece of the relationship is not necessarily correct I would hope this is the case but modern politics and society does not agree with this assessment. Women should be going for the guy that will take care of them the most I can’t really take care of one right now I can’t really take care of a child right now I can take care of myself and my dogs trust me that money that I spend on booze and weed would go to her and my child if I was married and getting a woman pregnant and spin a snece I need responsibility in my life I was only caring about myself and what I need I need very little other than an apartment some weed and dogs if I had a woman kids I don’t give a damn what I want sure I’ll buy a six pack of beer yeah that I’m more interested in her concerns and I child’s concerns that I am my own mean a drastic change in lifestyle bad my responsibility is to her and my child set an a kiss I have responsibility for myself so why should I care. I sustained me my dogs and what I am only to do to live

[CallmeTheKnight]

Its wrong to want someone's money or to want someone because of their money.

It's ok to want someone to be financially responsible, but if you gotta have money to get involved with a particular woman... she's a bum, leave her for the drug dealer or scammer that she got her eyes on.

[Anonymous]

As a woman and knowing other women, I do think women are attracted to men with money. I’m not an exception. Generally when I meet a guy thought, his job or financials is the last thing I ask about. What I care about first is having a good connection with the guy and physical attraction, if he has money it’s a plus, if not… then that’s fine. Finding a good emotional connection is more important because sometimes is not easy to find it even with a guy that has the money or the looks. To women, money is the equivalent to the future survival of her offsprings, to some it signifies power, to others is self commodity. To me it means that if I start a family with the guy, my kids won’t perish.

[Asker]

As it happened with me. I don't blame women.

[sheikalana]

As a woman I want to say that this is very wrong. Women should be encouraged from a young age to work for what they want in life instead of depending on others. I remember being a kid and a teenager and my mom would say things like " you should marry a rich men because you love expensive things" thank God I didn't take this too seriously and managed to do great in life find a successful career and provide anything I want to myself.

[Asker]

Impressive 😍 glad you did what you did and not listen to your mom. You made the right choice.

[jennifer_bloom]

I’m not a man but I don’t mind giving people things they need and things they will give me back, like I might get my friends free food but I know they will also try to give me free food and I don’t mind helping somebody if they require it, but I get annoyed if a guy asks me for a cappuccino because if he is not spending his own money, he should ask for a black coffee. I don’t mind getting rice for a hungry person but if they ask for lobster tail dinners, I will be annoyed.

[midnightmoon05]

I think so. I know some women told me they married the man because he has a good job but he is not good looking.
I don’t know what to say… makes me wonder if she truly loves him or just for security. I also heard lots of women who don’t want to work.
I have never feel good taking money that don’t belong to me.
I don’t get child support or alimony even thought my ex husband makes double than me and the one who decided to leave the marriage.
I hold some of my moms retired money, she told me I can use it. I never did. In fact, it’s in CD under my name. So I have to pay tax for her and give her the interest the money incurred. As for my dads money, it’s there when the time he leaves us… money is set aside for his funeral. Any extra will be divided to give to all his 8 grand kids. So no I only believe the money I earn belong to me and spend it as I like and enjoy it as I deserve.

[Asker]

I respect that from you. I know not all women are gold diggers and likewise not all women make their own money. I suppose that's what dating is for to get to know each other. While some men leverage money to impress women (gold diggers) i leverage the other love languages and the small things and what i can do to impress women.

[Screenwriter]

No one should want money that is not theirs. WOmen aren't children and therefore should not be supported for just "being." Unless a woman is doing valuable work in a relationship, and when I say "work" I mean taking care of a home, finances, children, doing family planning for events, vacations etc... she is not contributing. Those are valuable services that would cost plenty if a man had to pay someone to do them.

And the fact that she's doing it with love for her partner is also wonderfully valuable. In fact, a price CANNOT be put on it.

But a woman who sits on her ass and wants to be "queened" for no other reason than she's sitting on a fine butt, face or body leaves me cold. Also smacks of being lazy. This is just new-fangled prostitution.

[Asker]

True that.

[Chazmatazz269]

It’s 2020 and women have all of the same opportunities to earn their money the way most men do. IF they choose not to, the consequences of their choices are theirs to bear. It’s no man’s responsibility to provide for a woman who offers him nothing in return. Unless of course you were dumb enough to marry her and let the system have a say. Also, a “sale” is a mutually agreed upon transaction. If a woman is selling anything of herself, she’s not taking advantage of her customers. In my estimation, prostitution is the only honest interaction between men and women. Everyone knows what they want, and everyone knows what they’re gonna get. I’ll take that over the dating GAMES every day of the year and twice on my birthday. Ell oh ell!

[Asker]

"I’ll take that over the dating GAMES every day of the year and twice on my birthday."

Me too man! Me too!

[SimpleGuy95]

I think it depends on your relationship. Because it´s different if you´re in a relationship or married and it also depends if she is working or not.
Because many guys want a stay at home wife and in such a case I find it´s reasonable that a woman wants a guy that has a good position because depending on the number of children meals or the kids can be very expensive.
On the other hand if it´s just a committed relationship and she takes as an excuse to slow down her life not going to work and completely dependend on you.
I think it´s wrong.

[Slartybartfast]

It is what it is.. in fact it's probably the number one reason men compete at work and work dangerous jobs that they hate.

Women's desire and judgement of men by income is a very real social pressure , strong enough to change how most men live their entire life. From the career they choose to the overtime they work and the jobs that they stay at that kill them slowly or quickly.

Men make more for the same reason women wear makeup. To be attractive to the opposite sex. It's not really a "choice" it's what we must do until things change.

[hahahmm]

According to feminists it's not wrong if she literally robs him of $500k cash but if he politely asked her for $5 to give to charity he could probably get arrested when she tells the cops that he "is a man I feel harassed by". Anyhow, I don't have a problem with women wanting/getting money. I have a problem with women being disloyal yet expecting a man to give them everything men gave women in traditional serious & loyal relationships. It's like with each passing year women expect more for less & it started getting really ridiculous 15-20 years ago but it took time for more guys to realize how silly things had gotten.

[RavVid]

It is easy to say it is wrong and if that is all the woman is after it will not end well.

But with guys and gals nothing is that simple.

The girl might be traditional and so might the guy. Together they think that her being a full time mom home keeper is best which in turn implies the guy needs to earn enough to support the family without her doing a paid job.

I rate it so so as it could be reasonable or it could be wrong in different circumstances with no categorical answer

[Anonymous]

I won't say women are attracted to money. Money has an influence on all. The bible even says the LOVE of money is the root of all sorts of bad things.
But we do need to feel secure. And women do want a man they can feel secure with. I have met some amazing thrifty women who are super heroic in their ability to save money. Its insane some of the alternatives I have seen. My mom was one of those. Her resourcefulness rubbed off on me.

But also men do not want a wasteful woman. Even in the "high maintenance" women I see they love to "save money" It just happens to be more spendy then savey

[Red-Blaze]

If you had the option will you take it?

If the man is ok with it, I guess that is fine as long as it comes up front and not someone truly cheating the outher side to roll in the cash

So as long as its honest I think its fine if its not then not

But no relation to woman or man, can be both sides (Not only rich boys out there :) )

[Asker]

No, i am in for the real deal. This way when the unexpected happens and the finances are impacted, she'll stay with me while the other peers, who wooed women using their money turn single all of a sudden. Like a bubble that just bursted. Pop it makes and their supposed girlfriend is an ex 😂👌

[Red-Blaze]

totally get that
love your rap/rayem there :)

[Asker]

I wasn't trying but that was well composed, I agree 😁👌

[TransAm85]

I think it's wrong how women leech off a guy and expect them to pay for everything. Sure, I understand kids can be hard to take care of, but that doesn't mean u can't do something else? Kids can start school at 3. I couldn't be a housewife I guess. I think a woman has to do her part also.

[Smashingdoozy]

It think most of us are more attracted to the idea of someone having it together, that usually means they have disposable income. Having that is desirable because it means you can actually do shit together, go places, not have to worry about what a night out would cost.
It's nice not struggling.

[CA4444]

I know some men are nice and want to provide and it’s really nice but you don’t want to be taken advantage of… how can you justify this behavior… do you think there can be love & respect when there is taking advantage and stealing?
the guy can be poor or rich af it doesn’t make a difference, you walk and work together through life as a team and each is likely to have different roles

[ZackBan]

I belive right and wrong are irrelevant here.

Women don't force men's wallets open and take the money, it's men with money who use it to tempt women.

If you were offered money for nothing you too would take it.

And we all want what we know others are just getting.

All this to say that you can't look at this as simply women wanting money.

[Zeus_66]

I thought this is what "girl power" was all about. Like mother, like daughter. Gold diggers.

Go get a job and be independent. Isn't that what femknazis want? More power? More control? More ability to oppress men. If so, why would they need our money?

[dreamstar72]

Well is it right or wrong for men to want money?
Well basically everyone wants money. Maybe not an obsession to money but we still have an attachment to money.
The question you should be asking yourself is if you lost all your money today would she still want you.
If yes then the money is spent wisely
If no then you are being screwed

[Kittykay_45]

I believe that people should t lie about what their interested in. If you like money find someone who doesn’t mind that you like money and can provide it. If you deny what you really want your just going to end up in a relationship you rent because you didn’t want to look some type of way to society. There are plenty of people out there who’s ideals and interest will line up and make them happy. Even if it’s the common love of money.

[CasaNorba]

is totally wrong. but unfortunately women wanting man for his money has become a social norm of today.

oh and beware of women who try justifying their gold digging urges by saying things like "I only want him to support his family" and other nonsense

[annabananna]

I think everyone probably has their own set of standards in what they want in a partner. Some women want a man to make at least 40k and others 200k. A certain price can seem excessive and be viewed as shallow but if we are all honest with ourselves we all have something that we desire in a partner that is shallow. As long as that’s not the ONLY thing and they do genuinely like the person and are good to them than who am I to judge if they also like that they have money?

[SunnyCaliGirl]

I chose so~so, and the reason is I don’t believe the desire for women is wrong. But I all depends how the women intends to get money if she’s striving for herself to get what she wants such as investing, saving, and living within her budget for the end goal of being finically secure.
And if she finds a partner with money that’s fine, as she should she’s looking after her own finical means 1st