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Polls: Dating

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The initial approach
Maintaining interesting conversation
The fear of possible/actual rejection
Getting past stereotypes of what the other gender wants
Your own self (unable to get out of your own way and screwing things up)
Being successful and having to actually have a relationship
Other (explain in comments)
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Add Opinion 24 50
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Alpine Cabin
Lake Cabin
New York Pent House
Luxury Hotel
Tropical Bungalow
Vanlife Road Trip
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Add Opinion 10 21
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Yes
No
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Add Opinion 23 51

Can a relationship between an extrovert and introvert work?

How? Because I think introvert and introvert make a better couple. Same with extrovert and extrovert.
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How? Because I think introvert and introvert make a better couple. Same with extrovert and extrovert. Show More
Yes
No
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Add Opinion 22 34
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0 people
1-2
3-4
5-6
7-8
9-10
Over 10
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Add Opinion 1 7

Do you have guys that only care about showing you off vs actually caring about you? Is this a red flag?

I never thought about it but I guess there are guys that only care about showing off. Sounds like a lame relationship.
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I never thought about it but I guess there are guys that only care about showing off. Sounds like a lame relationship.
It's a red flag and won't date him
Not a red flag and I'll still date him
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Yes
No
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Add Opinion 7 15

So why is the girl I’m dating mad her best friend spent an evening with her ex? Why does it matter and should I reconsider dating her?

So like I’m a guy and my impresion was “who gives a f*ck, you’re no longer with him anymore”. I just don’t understand why women can’t just let go and forget about the past. There’s nothing you can do to change it....
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So like I’m a guy and my impresion was “who gives a f*ck, you’re no longer with him anymore”. I just don’t understand why women can’t just let go and forget about the past. Show More
Give it some time
Don’t date her
Continue dating her
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Being desired sexually.
Dating someone who will make your friends jealous.
Compatible values, and common hobbies.
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Add Opinion 0 13
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Good sign
Bad sign
Results/opinion
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A guy that's on the middle of buying a house.
Yes
No
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Why don't men care when they're objectified?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/A38nwYmL3dU
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Add Opinion 11 97
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Yes it’s good because it’s showing affection
No it’s weird
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Yes
No
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Add Opinion 18 24
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Yes they/we do
No they/we don’t
Other
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Add Opinion 7 2

Is 15 years too much of an age gap?

I’m 35 and the man I like is 50. Is this age gap too much? I’ve never dated anyone older than me before. He’s only a few years younger than my parents, so I didn’t know if this would seem weird. What do you think?
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I’m 35 and the man I like is 50. Is this age gap too much? I’ve never dated anyone older than me before. He’s only a few years younger than my parents, so I didn’t know if this would seem weird. What do you think?
Yes, it’s too much
No, it’s fine
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Add Opinion 7 20

Do you carry too much baggage to have a healthy relationship?

Are there things in your past that you are having a hard time moving on from? ... or is everything hunky-dory for you?
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Are there things in your past that you are having a hard time moving on from? ... or is everything hunky-dory for you? Show More
Yes, I most definitely have issues from my past and I am not sure what to do about it
Yes, I have issues, but I think it is somewhat manageable
No, I think I am ok, as my past issues are not insurmountable
OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Baggage" Survey
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Add Opinion 16 30
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I would date someone with mental illness
I would date someone with mental illness, but it depends
I wouldn't date someone with mental illness
Something else
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Add Opinion 12 38

I had to comfort a guy crying over his mum, I knew him for a week, is this a red flag?

M26 F28 . I met him online. Knew him for a week , within the week, the first time we met we established we were obviously attracted to each other and made out, it was fun, hot, all that. Then I met up with him 2 days...
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M26 F28 . I met him online. Knew him for a week , within the week, the first time we met we established we were obviously attracted to each other and made out, it was fun, hot, all Show More
Yes
No
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Guys, are cute girls attractive?

My friends often say I'm "kawaii", "cute", "adorable" and have a "childlike/girlish" attitude. Also people (specially older people) describe me with diminutive words despite me being 16 and people often take care of me or...
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My friends often say I'm "kawaii", "cute", "adorable" and have a "childlike/girlish" attitude. Also people (specially older people) describe me with diminutive words despite me being Show More
yes, it's attractive
no, it's a turnoff for me
other
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