Polls: Dating

I’m in my late twenties and planning to get married soon, but I’m feeling a bit unsure about this Italian guy I’ve been seeing. I’m not a native English speaker, though my English is quite good, probably close to native level.

He’s Italian and currently living in my country. His English isn’t terrible, but it’s a bit broken , not so bad that I can’t understand him, but it sometimes makes communication a little tricky.

He’s a good guy, and there’s definitely attraction between us, but that language barrier worries me a bit.

I live in a small country where most people aren’t very open-minded, while I consider myself quite open-minded , which is probably why I tend to be more drawn to foreigners.

Do you think I should give him a chance?

Welp. In my experience I only have my best friend. Men in my experience will never ask me out on dates so that makes me undesirable for them.

Some people don't like to be touched (especially on the hair). I like to hug and kiss my boyfriend. He is more of a hugger, but will kiss. What do you prefer?

So im 24 year old female a virgin. Never drink alcohol or smoked.. never partied. Im so lonely. But I wanna ger hair transplant and otoplasty+fillers etc before dating (hair transplant isn't severe at all just zone 2). And I live at home.

I dont know should I start dating? Should I start drinking? Should I do online dating?

So many people talk about wanting to be attractive, and it’s not like I don’t get it. I’ve been pretty conventionally unattractive for most of my life, but I don’t see it as a flaw anymore. If anything, I more easily know who’s a good person and who isn’t because they judge me solely off of my looks and know that me being around them gains them nothing that they want for that alone. When you’re attractive, there are absolutely people who are vapid and vain and will gain something by having you in their circles or on their arm and you always hear the stories of women being stalked by men who took good manners as flirtation, or friends losing friends because they lost a beauty factor they once had. It doesn’t seem “real” to me, but when you’re not in that category, it seems like you find more sincere relationships that last much longer.