What is best way to date to meet someone serious?

[bunnyboo24]

Dating app (value/morals based)

Through friends

Other? (Comment below)

[Anonymous]

You need to understand that many guys are just as introverted and nervous as you are. Women are really bad at showing they are interested in a guy. You would be surprised by how much it can spark a guy's interest if he knows a girl is interested in him.

If you're looking for a good guy with serious intentions, skip the online dating. It's just a hookup thing. I would suggest looking for guys anywhere else other than online.

[bunnyboo24]

You are problaby right. How do I show a guy I like him and where?

[Opinion Owner]

Think about how you would expect a guy to show he's interested in you. Approach him, talk to him, smile at him, show interest in things he's interested in, reach out to him in text or social media just to say hi. If you have the nerve, ask him on a date.

[bunnyboo24]

I dont wanna ask him out I would be too nervous but I can show interest

[Opinion Owner]

Good luck, I hope it works out.

[bunnyboo24]

Thank you:)

[RavVid]

Good advice in the above. The best indicator is if a girl (or guy) seems to enjoy talking and interacting with you.

You don't need to ask him out but you can give him openings to ask you out. Say if you are talking about movies. If you say you really want to see Movie X that is just out, it makes it easy for him to suggest you see it together.

You might be a very social girl who interacts with everyone or you might like me. By giving openings you make it easier to be asked out.

[Opinion Owner]

@bunnyboo24 Thank you for MHO. That's some good advice from RavVid too.

[rebelsunshine]

Church

[mysteriousNicholas]

Depends - not all churches are created equal

[ohsheeT]

Well this is the whole thing when you meet somebody right off the bat and they wanna know how serious you are to me. That's just a major red flag

But to meet somebody become friends and each day that you're around each other, you kind of grow, and you become more serious. That's how you fall in love

But when somebody says I'm looking for somebody serious\nWell , I could say , yes , i'm serious but it would be a big lie. Because I want to get to know you each other day. I mean in because that's what's going to make me fall in love.
You fall in love that's better than well, it's way better than.
Saying yes, I'm serious. I'm in love with you LO. L no way

[bunnyboo24]

Okay I get what you are saying But I disgaree. Im more conservative

[ohsheeT]

Lol yes and what i was trying to say came out wrong anyway there are chat sites that I go to every once in a well and you start talking to somebody and you ask. Well, what are you looking for they say somebody serious. Or a serious relationship. And I'm always thinking, how can you have a serious relationship? You have to get to know each other first. And these are usually scam girls. Anyway, they try to scam you. So anytime, anybody says anything about serious? I put my hand up l o , l , but I know what you mean , and I agree

[bunnyboo24]

I get what you mean again. But in conservative relationships we tend to ask serious questions in the start before evan going on the date so we dont waste time

[AviatorTom]

Meeting someone through friends is the best way if you want serious, but dating site/app gives you the most choices. So it's a tossup. Since I met my wife on a dating site, I voted for that.

[Fireguy17]

I met my wife on eHarmony.
I live out in the sticks, so my choices were pretty limited.
Because it was a pay site, unlike most apps, it really helped to sort out those that were just looking for another free meal, guys looking to score.
Yes there were still some of those on the site but you could report them.
So to me it was well worth the time and money.
I would have never met her otherwise.
Site like it's just lunch e Harmony where it is a cost to join help you to know those on the site are looking for the same thing.
But you still have to do the work, endless emails, finding matching socks, cleaning out the pickup for yet another date, but for me the end result was well worth it.

[bunnyboo24]

Yess it makes sense. A lot of filtering to find out what they want. More options for women but many men are just horny and some try to hide their intentions smh

[msc545]

I think it depends on what you want, but probably if you live in the U. S., the best way to date and not get damaged and also to acquire a decent relationship is to move out of the U. S. Entirely. People in the US do not seem to take relationships very seriously anymore, whereas people in many foreign countries continue to have a certain reverence for marriage that is not present here in the US. Marriage in the US is generally viewed now as a business transaction and has little spiritual value for most people. Like almost everything else, it has been totally corrupted by totally corrupt capitalism, which is what is practiced here in the United States.

[bunnyboo24]

Ok I see. Im in Norway thi

[bunnyboo24]

*tho

[msc545]

Okay, well that is a great advantage for you, and quite honestly, I'm jealous. I wish I lived in another country other than the U. S., and the Scandinavian countries and Norway in particular would be among my top choices. Living here is like living in a continuous firefight of words. It's also a very scary place to live in recently. Every morning I wake up to find out what horrible things the President has done again. He never disappoints me, because he always seems to come up with some increasingly offensive, disgusting behavior that other people either shrug about or try to justify. It is very demoralizing. Never, ever, even visit here. You will be very disappointed, at best, and actually become a crime victim at worst. None of this is worth it. There is nothing here for you that will make you happy.

[MJVillarama]

The best way? Focus on being your authentic self and knowing what you want. Quality over quantity. Learned this from Jared Laurence, the dating coach for men. guy really knows his stuff.

[bunnyboo24]

Well im a woman

[MikeTheBartender]

There's probably no best way, but through friends the person is at least a little vetted. I think an even better way is through common interests, but they have to be genuinely common, don't go to the salsa lesson thing just because you want to meet a guy, go because you want to learn salsa. Things like that.

[Spencer10]

Do not use dating sites. They are just cesspools of BS. Nothing but frustrations. Try the real world. Get out and live... do things... pursue passions. Then when encountering an interesting person do not be afraid to approach them. Be open to being approached. Fortune always favors the brave.

[bunnyboo24]

Im so introverted and shy though.. i know there are dating apps for Christians. Not like tinder but where you respond to a bunch of questions on morals etc to get matched. Maybe thats good or i have to go out?

[Spencer10]

I recommend meeting real people in the real world. Dating site... probably all of them tend to be fake. In the real world you get to see how a person behaves. How did they treat the staff at Starbucks?

[bunnyboo24]

True I guess. Or I use dating app to meet them up for a date irl?

[Spencer10]

I mean its just my opinion... but smart women I know always tell me what a demoralizing experience dating sites tend to be. It might be part of the puzzle but should never be the only way to meet quality people.

[bunnyboo24]

I understand and I get what they mean i never met up with anyone due o that reason but there was one reeally kind man before but got too nervous to see him

[BeechImFabulous]

People used to meet through shared social connections where others could vouch for her / him, but many people in the industrialized world are atomized and basically don't have social circles.

In this day and age, I don't know of any fruitful places to meet folks, otherwise I'd try them myself.

[Anonymous]

Maybe some sort of event. Don’t have some hobbies that there are public events for these? I wouldn’t suggest a bar that’s for sure.

[bunnyboo24]

An event.. hmm. and I go alone? Like I attend new brand event or something else?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. An event where there’s a good amount of people. Get a chance to network, possible meet some nice man who shares the same interest. Network w people, maybe one of the men you might like will be in one of those groups, don’t would give you a reason to talk to him.

[bunnyboo24]

Okay but I go there alone or with a female friend?

[Opinion Owner]

I know a lot of women don’t feel safe going out on their own or feel weird about going alone, but I always think it’s best for men when we can approach a girl who’s alone. I say this because not only does he have to try to impress her, he also has to impress w her friends as well. I think female friends are the worst to have especially when they’re all single because a lot of times they’re doing or saying things to their female “friend” who might be looking for a man to make her change her mind. It’s hard enough for men to talk to one girl, nervous and all, so imagine trying to not look like an idiot in front of numerous women.

[bunnyboo24]

Okay it makes sense but it should still be safe so something during the day and no drinking

[Opinion Owner]

Yes exactly that would be great. Get out, make new friends, network, potentially a partner. What sort of hobbies do you like?

[bunnyboo24]

I dont know I isolated myself too much to know.. but I would be open to most stuff as long as its not drinking. Like bowling, painting, book club or anything else

[mysteriousNicholas]

Real life is always a good start and someone you see often enough where you know, you know concretely 👁️ 👁️ "there's no ring there" 💍 💍

[mysteriousNicholas]

A woman who wears just 1 ring or 3 rings, always will throw a single guy off into turn off mode : 😔 lol 💍 "is she married"

[Iron_Man]

go to a football game at a huge stadium full of men

[bunnyboo24]

Yeah but I dont like football and im very shy so if someone walks up to me i'd problaby freeze or get really weird

[Iron_Man]

Well if you don’t like football I hate to break it to you, but it’s the most popular sport in the world and men like women that like football so if you don’t learn to like it, you’re gonna be left out on a lot of things

[bunnyboo24]

Hmm okay. So the majority of women in long term relationships like football?

[Iron_Man]

It’s a man’s passion it’s very popular football. I go to the stadium Its always a girl with a guy side by side so obviously the women like it and if they don’t, they learn to like it. Usually if the guy likes football a lot the girl wants to please him and she’ll like it to And she’ll think it’s interesting to make the guy happy and the guy does the same thing with a woman when it comes to other things that she likes if the woman is selfish, it doesn’t work out. Not everything evolves around the woman’s life and if the man doesn’t like it, he can leave. It doesn’t work that way.

[bunnyboo24]

Ofcourse if my future boyfriend wants to go I will go. Just meant as single and going alone is weird

[Iron_Man]

Well, learn to like it study the players study your hometown team study the rules study how the game is played because eventually your future boyfriend will be into football and will want to take you and tell you about it and get you involved.

[Iron_Man]

Even in high school the girls get involved and they have pep rallies and they have cheerleaders the girls are motivated

[bunnyboo24]

Okay I see well im not in US so I dont have it here

[Iron_Man]

Oh well, I don’t know what to tell you about that. They don’t play very much over in Europe. they like soccer

[bunnyboo24]

Yeah

[Iron_Man]

Good luck

[bunnyboo24]

Thankyou

[Iron_Man]

You are very welcome

[exitseven]

Through friends is a good way. Meeting somebody at a bar is not.

[Celticwolf78]

It all depends on what you are looking for I don't even try anymore because of all of the crap

[bunnyboo24]

i want a life partner

[Celticwolf78]

If you want pm me

[bunnyboo24]

i can't am xper level 1 but i followed you. Whhat do yu wanna talk about

[slatyb]

It doesn't work that way. You meet people and decide whether they are serious. Some are, some are not.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Just get out and put yourself out there. And when you meet someone don't force it let things take a natural progression

[Anonymous]

Probably trough friends, but I'm not sure, I never had a relationship.

[bunnyboo24]

Im so sorry. How come?

[Opinion Owner]

Girls I like usually don't like me back.
Girls who like me are usually not my type.

[bunnyboo24]

Maybe you should give the not your type a chance? See what happens? Or when you say not your type what are we talking?

[Opinion Owner]

No, I wouldn't be with a girl that I'm not attracted to. I can only be friends with them.

[bunnyboo24]

Alright then I wish you the best

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you very much.

[Ironco]

I just go up to and talk with the ladies.

[TonyMetal___86]

It can be through any of these

[bunnyboo24]

Cool

[furki3]

You can speak with men. İf you like hım. :)

[bunnyboo24]

Who? What man?:(

[furki3]

Do you love handsomen? Or ugly men? Which?

[furki3]

İs appearance important to you?

[bunnyboo24]

Yes ofcourse

[furki3]

Good. You are using Instagram? Guys send you message?

[bunnyboo24]

No I dont have social media

[furki3]

You should use social Media really

[driven159]

it just happens you never know

[Jmmmfi4]

Wish I knew

[mysteriousNicholas]

Sometimes it's just reality lol 😆😅 reality gets in the way