Polls: Dating

30F this is happening more and more over the past couple of years. If you want to meet up, why do I have to text you when I’m available? Since you’re initiating, shouldn’t you ask for my number or another platform to communicate on? You don’t even answer my question in the last message, just jump straight to demanding that I text you first. I’m not saying I won’t take initiative in the “dating” game, but why are men expecting me to text them first? Again, when they’re the ones asking to meet up in the first place? This is when I normally stop replying, this didn’t happen as much maybe 3-4 years ago.

Personally I preferred to date and marry a man of the same race as me because I heard they’re more accepting of a woman’s imperfections, especially body hair. I had seen a number of them date hairy girls who are hairier than me since I only have hair on my underarms and pubic area. When it comes to interracial dating between Caucasian men and Asian women, I never seen any of those men date hairy women. I don’t mean to stereotype as it doesn’t apply to certain races since the opposite can happen too. It’s way easier to get along with someone of the same race because we have the same culture. Dating someone from a different country and race means higher chances of cultural clashes and disagreements. If I couldn’t get a man of the same race as me I will no choice but to pick man of a different race

Guys, have you ever came onto a Girl when you could sense that she wasn't really into you but you tried anyway?

I’m a simple woman. All I wanted is s** and true love I don’t need designer bags, sports car, a mansion, credit cards, anything that is luxury because why? Because money can’t buy happiness and I know this as someone who used to own a Chanel wallet ($920 in my country’s currency because I bought it in Paris) only to realise it’s just some overpriced lump of leather meant to degrade quicker with use. I can afford fine dining if I want to but it’s not practical so I would choose to go fine dining every 8 years using my own hard earned money of course. I will not expect my man to buy me gifts on Valentine’s Day as I would rather spend it with him at a park. In my country many men are single because in my country here in Asia (not saying all of Asia as not all are the same) women expect men to be wealthy, meaning the ability to afford a condo, sports car, tons of cash, owns credit cards, a extremely expensive big house which only the elites can afford. I’m not saying all women in my country are like this as I personally met some women whom are down to earth but sadly those women are rare like precious gems in a world of plain stones. Materialism is a huge thing here because society and social media shaped women’s perception of a successful man.

He hasn’t bothered to communicate consistently for the past 8 months. We spoke a bit for the first month then things fizzed out. All he does is watch my stories and comment on my instagram posts and now he says he wants to see me. But I don’t feel as close to him anymore. We’re long distance so texting or calls would be our only way to communicate. It was even his idea to met up again despite the long distance - we planed to meet halfway for the both of us in Indonesia.

I'm curious to know, many men claims they don't like it but at the same time many men do date those women then ask them to dress more modest while some others just refuse to engage with them at all, in which case are you?