Will I get any man who wants me as a wife if I expect these things?

[Anonymous]

I’m a simple woman. All I wanted is s** and true love I don’t need designer bags, sports car, a mansion, credit cards, anything that is luxury because why? Because money can’t buy happiness and I know this as someone who used to own a Chanel wallet ($920 in my country’s currency because I bought it in Paris) only to realise it’s just some overpriced lump of leather meant to degrade quicker with use. I can afford fine dining if I want to but it’s not practical so I would choose to go fine dining every 8 years using my own hard earned money of course. I will not expect my man to buy me gifts on Valentine’s Day as I would rather spend it with him at a park. In my country many men are single because in my country here in Asia (not saying all of Asia as not all are the same) women expect men to be wealthy, meaning the ability to afford a condo, sports car, tons of cash, owns credit cards, a extremely expensive big house which only the elites can afford. I’m not saying all women in my country are like this as I personally met some women whom are down to earth but sadly those women are rare like precious gems in a world of plain stones. Materialism is a huge thing here because society and social media shaped women’s perception of a successful man.

Yes

No you must be good looking too

Updates

8 mo

I forgot to add I considered myself average looking as I have male and female friends commented that I’m pretty while some find me to be average looking so it’s basically beauty is subjective.

[Zack-Bann]

All of these things are nice to have


But if you’re not getting attention you should probably work on your image


I know it’s shallow but it’s the hard truth of our world


Get in a gym, get fit and perky, style your hair, wash yourself and use all the skin creams needed for a healthy skin, get some nice clothes (not necessarily expensive but stylish)


And you’ll have more candidates than you know what to do with

[Asker]

I worked out at home by doing cardio and strength training but I don’t like to wear fancy clothes unless I have to since I’m a T shirt and jeans typa girl. I do get attention by being fit and had men checking me out but none of them approached me. My country has this culture where men are not supposed to approach women who are strangers unless they know her well. I’m a loner and I hate meeting new people.

[Zack-Bann]

Then you gotta move abroad :)

I’m not even kidding. i was the same way in my country of origin

Then I moved to study and work abroad and now I have way more experience in that field and all the action I can handle

[Berethor]

The men in your country would sure be happy to meet a woman who is not a gold digger.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Gold_Digger

[DryGermanGuy]

I’m not sure I detected the question in here, but as Robert Ritter said in Clear and Present Danger, „The world is gray!“ Meaning, you will find all the graduations in people’s characters from fully black to fully white.

[wkhan_87]

Ofcourse you will get one husband your match