(SFW SURVEY) Girls, have you ever had a guy come on to you that you weren't really into and felt kind of trapped?

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Guys, have you ever came onto a Girl when you could sense that she wasn't really into you but you tried anyway?

Curmudgeon · Accepted Answer

This is a variation of being "Friendzoned".

Now I have been there and done that three decades ago. In university days, I met a self-proclaimed lesbian who was actually *a beautiful girl*. In my mind at least. I know, most decidedly DO NOT look attractive, which is probably why it struck me as so sad.

Back in my early to mid twenties, I engaged in what I can only call, looking back at those days, "the Don Quixote Capers". I was tilting at the proverbial windmills, trying to win the affections of an otherwise delightful woman, who, alas, was still a man-hating lesbian. Leftoid ideology too, although she has since wised up. We laugh about it now.

Nevertheless, I still found her fascinating, and many of her friends too. I was perhaps the male equivalent of a "Fag hag".

I was The Man Of La Rug Muncha.

There was even one of them, a short squat and unattractive one, who became friendly to me and sort of protected me in the inevitable awkward situations I got myself into and she was my female Sancho Panza of sorts.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Don_Quixote

But In the end? It was futile. Don't fight to be where you aren't wanted.

LunarEclipse433 · Accepted Answer

Probably to a fault and limit my options I am never pushy with a woman

Ninania · Accepted Answer

It happens all the time, which is why I learned to aggressively defend myself and my boundaries. I'd rather be a raging bitch than get raped again.

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

Yeah. I wouldn't say trapped. More annoyed at the persistence when I made it clear I wasn't interested.

AviatorTom · Answer

When I was much younger and single, I did make a move on a girl a few times, but when she quickly let me know she wasn't interested, I respected her answer and backed off.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Never; if i’m getting nothing from her, i don’t make a move. Never have. Never will.

Genie23 · Answer

Yes, sadly more than few times.

Rei13 · Answer

Unfortunately yes and more than once

Zack-Bann · Answer

Never happened to me

Mainly because my approach to seduction is to do the work and let the girl choose if or not she wants to act on it

Most do

The few who don’t, no hard feelings

I’ve actually had one girl come onto me when I absolutely didn’t want her to

(It was more than one but one was very pushy about it)

MannMitAntworten · Answer

No. I do not hit on someone I do not ‘sense’ some form of shared interest from them in return. To be fair, women can be awfully dang forward and pushy when they want to hit on someone as well and rejection doesn’t go as smoothly. Been on the receiving end a lot.

Meatballs · Answer

0 I've had many girls come on to me that I did not find attractive or I did not like not that I'm the most handsome guy in the world but I've had many of women that I just did not find attractive or just did not want to be associated with I'm not a mean person but I have my standards they're not very high but they ain't that low either

meetkitty123 · Answer

Happened one too many times worst case was when it happened and I was just a kid 14 - 16 different weirdos who knew my age  at least as an adult I can defend myself

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I've always been able to read the room, so I've never came on to any girl that didn't show interest in me even a little first.. Plus, I was a shy boy, so I hardly came onto any girl and that extended into my adulthood for the most part..

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Lots of guys I'm not interested in have come on to me but I never felt trapped, in any way, by any of them.  I've been courageous enough to fend them off.

Bricealan · Answer

No. Never did that, as I am intuitive enough to know that she was not interested in me and I would not have made any more attempts to get in her pants.

Zionne · Answer

Yes many girls have felt pressured or awkward when someone pursued them despite their lack of interest. On the flip side, some guys admit they’ve tried pursuing someone even when they sensed she wasn’t feeling it, often hoping to change her mind.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

No, not really.. because with most guys I have boundaries but with my ex I have had things go further then I wanted at the time..

exitseven · Answer

I dated somebody who just was not into me. I hoped that she would change her mind after she got to know me but down deep I really know that it does not work like that.

chrissykerdock · Answer

at times then you ay see after awhile this guy really loves me so it works both ways

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

There are variety of girls some like to be chased to prove their worth or something Some just don't like it some just tease for a guy to get all of that sometimes is a challenging task..

__Nikki__ · Answer

Absolutely, some guys can't take no for an answer. I've had guys try and block me from walking away etc.

Jennz6 · Answer

Yes it happens to me sometimes because of my job. Some of my customers expect too much 💃

WonderingManII · Answer

I think all men can do is just try. Girl's are known to change their minds on things.

Anonymous · Answer

Christ. I can’t imagine being a girl for this reason. As a guy I hate this happening. I’m sure every girl has it happen 100 times to every one time I’ve had to deal with it.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Unrequited love? Quite possibly. But if a girl doesn't seem to be into me I do back off.

krin_m · Answer

Attraction has to be both ways, otherwise there is no point.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I would never do that to a girl, I'm too shy, and I can't make the first move.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

At first I thought it said cum on you, not come on to you 😳

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nope cause if I sense they aren't into me then I back off. I dont want to be with anybody that doesn't want to be with me

Flower7 · Answer

I don’t understand why they do this.

mat678 · Answer

I wouldn't do that if she isn't into me

DrPepper12 · Answer

God I hope not! Yuk 🤢

oswaldcobblepot · Answer

Thats why Im 34 and single

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Yeah, I have. It always ends badly for me

Wiredone · Answer

I wouldn't do that to a woman

austinbooth · Answer

I feel sorry for these ladies.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, but I make it clear I’m not into him

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