Yes. "My type" is the antithesis of what I attract. I think I get approached the most by the last kind of guy you would expect for my race and values. I'm learning that my look is exactly what they want.
by the way, my physical/emotional type is the male version of me with curly dark hair, brown/tan skin. Likes litterature, thoughtful discussion, expressive, quick to laugh, physically active, and gentle, possibly shy.
I attract a lot of blond haired, blue eyed, pale men who aren't really into discussion or listening. They can be impulsive, very self-important.. Etc. A lot of them fall into the frat boy, cut-throat, or very athletic categories. So either impulsive or very competetive.
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Yup. I've been known to attract a lot of depressed dudes with shit going on in their lives. My life is kind of perfect. I have amazing parents, im a straight A student, my parents are surgeons and I've been known to attract guys who have a lot of shit going on lol. Like this dude who drank vodka everyday, smoked cigarettes, did drugs, smoked weed, got arrested, got into fights in school but he was intelligent af. I liked him a lot but decided that he was not for me. I'd never fall for a guy like him ever again
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Yes, I’m usually attracted to good guys well rounded. Well I kept running into this same guy on different occasions and he was the complete opposite of the kind of guy I like. He was definitely a Bad Boy. I wasn’t interested in him but he was very Fine. One day I went to visit my cousin and the same guy was at her neighborhood pool he turned out to be a close friend to her and she introduced us. We ended up going out and the more time we spent together he grew on me and I actually started to like him despite his bad boy ways.
Fallen? No but I have found this guy attractive. I have a hot neighbor who has a gym in my area. He is well known in the fitness industry. He has tats (sleeves) and is a total bad boy. Fast cars, motorbikes, extreme sports & seems like a total brute haha. We've joked about this many times. We work out together some days, he asked me out numerous times but I haven't taken him up on the offer yet. I'm not into bad boys - I prefer nerdy hot types instead lol. As I am somewhat sapiosexual. Surprised that I like him? Not at all. I mean there are all types of beautiful people out there but his type screams SINS hahaha. I will be going on a date with him when I return home as he has kept contact. Sometimes I wonder why someone like him would want to date someone like me?
FALLEN no, but turned on/attracted to him yes, his height was slightly below chest level and I originally preferred someone my height, a bit shorter or taller doesn't matter, this was quite the height difference. But he was funny, had a beautiful smile, fun to hangout with and was in shape too on top of that
My mum told me he is a good guy. We started out as friends and I realised he is really good.. Too bad we broke up...
Dated? Yes. Fallen? No. I’ve got a specific type I really like and I seem to only develop feelings for those kind of men.
I'm currently dating this exact guy now & i couldn't be happier 😄
I've only ever fallen for one guy... So my "type" is him
Yes but later I hated them like HELL.
I just wish that they NEVER EXISTED.Yep! I’m still with him today lol. Three years so far. Hoping for many more. Sometimes it’s the ones you least expect
Yeah I had. It was my fault. Shouldn't have done that.
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